One thing I would to explain and relate to is that I am a college kid and I constantly have a confusion on what the girl wants out of the guy, because usually in my perspective I feel as if I put too much time into thinking about what they want rather than actually doing what they want, a lot of times I hate for girls to have social media because it almost feels like thats where there attention lies rather than you, no matter what you say or do. However girls in college I have noticed are attracted to the status of a guy, how well he gets along with others and what others think of him, typically thats why in college frat guys are looked upon higher than guys that are not in a frat. This is the simple idea that they are more superior even though realistically its not true.
Things that girls also gain much attraction for is commitment to the gym, rather you being completely ripped or being muscular in body type grabs girls attention. I just have constant confusion on where there commitment and passion lye. Getting to the point with them in person in sometimes a productive method, and always have confidence no matter what the situation, if she accepts you, confidence, if she rejects you, confidence, and let explain one more time confidence, Confidence, CONFIDENCE!
In conclusion, guys don't get down when things aren't going to hot with you and girls, we all understand that once social media got involved things got harder because then girls didn't have to speak for themselves anymore rather than how many likes they have on Instagram. But there is a light at the end of the tunnel, girls still like the simpler things, such as humor and making them laugh is the biggest thing. Keep consistent on your passions in life, always be yourself around the girl you are talking to and try to care about her as much as she cares about you, little or more.