In order to effect change, you must first know who you are and what it is you choose to change. Relational aggression and bullying are key factors that most youth deal with and can shape your whole image of yourself if you allow it to. True empowerment comes when you break everything down to the basics, rid yourself of ego and fear, then move forward to create what it is YOU truly care about in this lifetime, instead of what society thinks you should be doing, acting or saying. This rings true for both boys and girls, men and women. I happen to like "hammer and nails and puppy dog tails." I also like "Sugar and spice and everything nice."
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Girl's Circle - Empowering Females Series - Are you a bully? Relational Aggression in female's
One of the best ways to figure out "Who you truly are," is through journaling. Here are a few subjects to get you started, so grab a pen and paper, go to a quiet place where you can be alone with your thoughts. Be totally honest with yourself. Take a few deep breaths and simply write down your thoughts without fear or judgement.
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Who am I?
We are all different things to different people. Some will see you as a friend, others will see you as your what you do. Others will see you as that random person on the street, etc.
How do you see yourself?
Are you Forgetful? Insightful? Funny? Quiet? Shy? Happy? Sad? Helpful, Detached? In love? Angry? bitter? Religious? Math freak? Poet? Musician? Writer? Gardening genius? etc? Maybe make a list of all your skills and traits. Set your timer for 10 minutes and see how many you can list without pausing to think about it.
What are your strengths and what are your weaknesses?
What are your gifts and talents?
What do you like the most about yourself?
What do you dislike about yourself?
What is your greatest fear in life?
What are your Hopes and Fears?
What holds you back from being truly happy with yourself and your life?
At what stage in your life did you give yourself permission to be less than the person you know you are?
Here are some great links to further discover "Who Am I?"
Who Am I? The Life Changing Question
Dr. Phil: 4 Questions You Must Ask to Be Truly Effective
Who Am I? Journal for 1 Week to Find Out.
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What Is @familyprotection? What Are The Rules? How Do I Donate?
@familyprotection was started approximately 3 months ago. If you are concerned about where these funds are going, please take the time to read this post:
We are Family Protection, Keeping Families Safe, Together
@markwhittam grew up in the care of CPS and then many years later he and his family had to flee their country under threats from the state to take their child because they home schooled.
Linda, @canadian-coconut, started @familyprotection because she has helped several families who have been torn apart at the hands of the legal kidnappers aka. Child Protection Services.
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It is up to us as a Community to uncover the truth and spread this truth worldwide!
If you or someone you know have children that are now wards of the state and/or government, we encourage you to share your story. If you are an underage youth caught up in this insane cycle of abuse and control..Please share your story..If you have friends in abusive situations..Please have them share their story. We here at steemit.com have caring people that that are willing to help you in anyway we can.
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Every person: man, woman, and child, has to ask themselves these questions. They will gain much insight into themselves, and it would be therapy all in itself. What you're doing to help @familyprotection is wonderful! Keep up the great work!! Upvoted and resteemed!! You've inspired me to do my best to raise money for this cause as well! Much love, @snowpea ❤
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Awesome, I look forward to reading your posts! I would love for you to do some writing for #girlscircle!
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Fun! A new female empowerment group! #teamgirlpowa welcomes you !we are doing a contest started by #sfp-cebu on "what it means to be a woman" each writer gets their own rewards there but we are asking ppl to donate. Is there a way we can collaborate or do this next week?
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I would love to collaborate with your group and other female groups! Be great if we could get a lot of these ladies to do some empowerment posts for #girlscircle! I will add links to these groups on my next post. Let's show these guys what a little girlpowa can do!!
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I know who I am, although others always seem to know better. By now it's fine they find me a monster. I do not care any longer plus they do not fit in my life anyway. Being a monster has benefits also ...
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Hey girlfriend...just be yourself..lol..write a post for #girlscircle about How to be a monster..🤡 I MUST take the time to pop over to Teamgirlpowa and Ladiesofsteemit and maybe write some post for you girls!! Right now it is curl up in my bed time and find a good movie. 😉
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Very nice post...........thanks..........................friend
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Thanks
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