Most of us have experienced a person whose arrogance is so appalling that we don’t want to be around that person or even in the same room.
But did you know that arrogance like this is usually a sign of deeply engrained fear?
It’s actually a lack of confidence.
The opposite of confidence is fear, so the arrogant are generally hiding their fear.
Fear of what? Well, that might depend on the situation you are in. It might be the fear “of being liked or accepted” by people in the room or at a party.
It might be the fear of being wrong.
Have you ever been in a situation where someone states something so emphatically, that they leave no room for discussion, because they “know” they are right.
I’ve seen this happen many times and I’ve known for a fact they are wrong. I haven’t always pointed it out because in some cases there’s just “up-side” to doing so. But I have on occasion, when it made sense to do so. (don’t get me wrong, I’m not always right either)
Doing this can lead to a heated discussion, but hey, that’s the way it goes sometimes.
We all have fears of some sort. But, it’s how we handle our particular fears that makes a difference in our life.
You’ve likely heard that public speaking and death by fire are considered two of the top fears.
Having spoken in front of groups of more than 2,000 people and being on stage with people like Mark Victor Hansen and Bob Proctor, can bring a little fear to the situation; however, my talk was highly thought of and I was awarded an honorary doctorate in one case.
What fears do you have?
Fear of failure can be a dominant fear for many people.
But keep in mind, failure can also be one of our greatest teachers. I know I learned a lot from my financial demise in my early 20s. It’s helped me get where I am today.
When it comes to failing in business, it can cost us time and money.
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Thank you for the resteem! Very appreciated.
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Very interesting post you!
I really like to see your post.
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thanks, I appreciate your feedback.
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yes arrogance is a thief, for some people fear make them arrogant and for some people fear make them coward. yes we all have fear in life. your success depends upon how we handle this fear. yes failure is a great teacher. it's so nice of you to share your trade secrets. @bigsilver keep sharing
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my pleasure. I appreciate your comments.
thanks for the kind words
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I always like your writing.
Well done:)
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Confidence is the one of the best key of success
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@bigsilver. Interesting post you!
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you did a good job
well done man
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This is a nice post, I've seen. Thank you
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Very interesting and nice post... thanks for share..
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Bro i have a question. Please answer if you know.
If i power down my sp where will it go?? On steem or on sbd?
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Sorry, not sure on that one. Don't know much about that.
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Oh, ok. tnx for the reply
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As always, great post.
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agreed ....its only the confidence that makes distinction.......i think self taught experiences also gives us an insight to our future steps....
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Yes, agreed.
We can teach ourselves many things, from online marketing to knitting.
that said, a mentor and/or coach can short cut the process for you.
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indeed.....with guidance and help we achieve more in less time what we struggle for ,,
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Thank You so much @bigsilver. I always see and U****e your article.That's great post.
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