I have learnt...

Not all that glitters is Gold. In life you need to have a test system for relationships especially one leading to a commitment of marriage. I always wonder why a marriage commitment is always taking lightly. All the beautiful hopes dreams and words spoken now meaningless. All the love suddenly vanishes to thin air and anger n resentment sets in and it seems there is nothing more to make you stay. No there's always a great answer or solution to marital issues which is going to the creator of Marriage God Almighty. YES! God alone can raise any dead situation to life and He actually made the institution of marriage therefore hand the marriage over to God in prayers. Most times one's partner may not share same believes keep praying for God's intervention it will surely come to pass.
A major reason though why marriages collapse is it was built on the wrong foundation. First was it built on God? If no then its not late for God to help you rebuild. If you're still single and want to avoid passing through heartaches to achieve marital bliss, start with having your own set of test questions that the answers if yes can encourage you to say yes to marriage. I personally have come to build up my own test questions

1. Is my partner God fearing?
2. Does my partner trust God truly in his time of distress./How does he handle stress?
3. Does he have a Godly vision and mission in life./ Is he aware of his purpose in life as a Christian?
4. What acts or works has he displayed to prove no 3. ?
5. Can He be my Spiritual Leader? / can i cry pour out my total emotions be it anger frustration and all and He is still There to show me love and remind me of God's presence in our life.

I hope this post will be useful to someone out there. I would be glad to get your replies to this or contributions. Thanks steemians for d upvotes in advance #winks. Love you all . Here's me hoping for the best and staying positive in this crazy world.