I'm about the understanding and conversation and you're right you should not be penalized for what you think and feel. That is your right. I found what you said conflicting. Which is why I questioned it. Through this conversation. You made me re-look at things. I love that. I love when a conversation will make me think differently. While an upvote for a contest and the reasoning behind it I personally don't have an issue with, I do see why others do. To me there are 'bigger fish to fry' LOL

I do approach issues with a resolution in mind. It's how I am. To me learning from both side and coming to a resolution that brings out the best in both side is optimum, it's not always possible.

If I came of short. I didn't not mean to. Some see it as a strength, sometimes I think it's a curse. I'm direct and it bothers a lot of people.