Happiness is a true response to the process of a person’s joy. Everyone wants to be happy. However, in the real world, there are pains of this kind and other with us. This requires us to have a normal heart, tolerate the sufferings in life, and be indifferent Disputes in the world, looking for happiness in life.
Someone heard of a famous optimist, so he went to visit this optimist. The optimist happily asked him to sit down and politely helped him resolve his troubles.
"If you didn't have a friend, would you still be happy?" the man asked straightforwardly. "Of course, I will think happily. Fortunately, what I don't have is a friend, not myself." "If you are walking and suddenly fall into a mud puddle, you will become a dirty mudman when you come out. Happy?" "I will still be happy, because what I fell into was just a mud pit, not an abyss."
"If you were beaten inexplicably, would you still be happy?" "Of course, I would think happily. Fortunately, I was only beaten and didn't take my life."
"If you go to extract a tooth, and the doctor pulls your good tooth by mistake and leaves behind the tooth, are you still happy?"
"Of course, I will think happily. Fortunately, he only pulled a tooth by mistake instead of clearing my heart."
"If you are sleeping and someone suddenly comes and sings in a terrible voice in front of you, would you still be happy?"
"Of course, I'll think happily. Fortunately, it's a man howling here, not a wolf."
"If you were about to leave this world, would you still be happy?"
"Of course, I would be happy to think that I have finally finished the road of life happily and can happily go to another ‘banquet’."
"So, there is nothing in life that can annoy or pain you?"
"Yes, as long as you are willing, you will find and find happiness in life. Pain is often uninvited, and happiness and happiness often require people to discover and seek." The optimist said.
Hearing this series of happy confession by the optimist, the visitor also realized the truth, and his life was full of joy.
Obviously, if we can't experience it with our heart, or lack the heart to cherish, it is difficult to realize where happiness lies, and sometimes even the happiness we are experiencing will be lost. As a philosopher once said: Happiness is like a football chased by a group of children. When they catch up to it, they kick it farther, and then run desperately to find it.
People pursue happiness, but happiness is not obtained or judged by some superficial forms. Happiness actually comes from the bottom of everyone's heart.
Life is a cumbersome and realistic combination of firewood, rice, oil and salt, and everyone's life is like this. Instead of unsatisfactory aspects, it is better to learn to have fun and look at the good side of life.
The taste in life is experienced by the soul. Get rid of the complexity, our hearts will be simpler, and we will get more happiness. Life is short. Finding your own happiness is the essence, and this is the source of happiness.
There are many things to do while a person is alive. It is impossible to expect everything to develop according to one's own imagination! All hope and pleading are nothing but annoyance. Only when everything happens, can you calm down the "wind and rain" in your chest and find happiness everywhere.
Faced with all the troubles and pains in life, we don't have to be too angry. Since they follow the wind, let them follow the wind!