Find the reason for yourself
In the interview process, there is a technique called attribution method.
What does this method mean?
That is, the interviewer will ask the interviewer to describe a mistake he has made during the interview. Of course it is a major mistake. In the process of description, the person must deliberately or unconsciously say the reason for the mistake, and take the reason. Where to go, this is the key point in the method, because if a person habitually assigns all the problems to others, it means that this person is not good at reflection, and it is easy to shirk responsibility, which will lead to the company in the work. The atmosphere is not harmonious, this is a good technique, but also illustrates a problem: many things, you have to find the reason from yourself
As the saying goes: "Stupid people will always find the faults of others, and smart people will only find their own."
Many times, when we encounter some troubles and difficulties, we always like to look for the reasons from the outside.
In fact, a person who cannot learn to reflect will never grow and progress.
Because when he started complaining about his bad luck and complaining about the shortcomings of others, he lost the opportunity and possibility to correct and improve himself.
Correcting the mistakes of others may shirk some responsibilities.
However, by looking for your own reasons, you can continue to correct and perfect your shortcomings.
Always pay attention to health
I have a question that I would like to ask everyone: what is the most important thing when people reach middle age?
For decades, our lives have been in a hurry. We have been pursuing ideals, fame, wealth and wealth all our lives. Many people are eager to take this path, but forget that the body is the capital of the revolution.
Excessive consumption is destined to be punished.
Only by cherishing the body can we enjoy the future life.
One of the prerequisites for health is a stable mood.
People who can control their emotions can control their lives.
In fact, the stronger the person, the less likely they are to compete with themselves.
If it is someone else's fault, please don't use it to punish yourself.
If everything is already a fact and the conclusion cannot be changed, there is no need to entangle it.
If the mood is stable, life will be smoother.