Masculine and Feminine Energies in Relationships

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"Hello to you. I hope you're doing great this week. I have a really good, really super powerful tip regarding relationships. So if either if you're struggling in a relationship, it could be an intimate relationship, a family relationship, maybe a friend, maybe at your workspace, if you are somehow struggling and you can't seem to figure out what's going on and what's wrong with the relationship, what doesn't fit, then maybe this tip will help you. I know that when I understood that concept and I put it into practice, it really helped my relationships at any levels so I hope it's going to do the same thing for you when you apply it.
So the tip for this week is that as individuals, we are blessed, I could say, we are blessed with a masculine and a feminine energy. It has nothing to do with either if you're a male or a female; it has nothing to do with sexual orientations or anything. It's really that we have both energies within us. Usually what happens is that the men will get their masculine energy a little bit on the overwhelmed and the women have their female energy on super powers, if I could say. The idea is to balance it within us and also within a relationship. So if you are in a relationship with somebody that is more masculine energy, it means that the other person will be more prone to taking actions and taking decisions and taking a lot of space in the relationship.
If you're with somebody that is more geared towards the feminine energy, then this person will be more emotional, but like on a vulnerability type of emotional. They're going to be more open to discussion, more open to get to an agreement and things like that. There's not one positive and one negative. There's not one better than the other. We need both, because sometimes we need our masculine energy to take action and to take decisions and to really push through the certain types of situations that we're going through. Other times it's better when we nurture whoever we're with, or we nurture ourselves, and we love, and we speak openly, and we listen, and we get in sync with somebody. So those are more feminine traits on an energetic level.
So it's really important to understand two things: One is that you have both within you and the second is that you can use both, you can summon both energy whenever you need them. If you're connecting with … Well, if you're trying to connect with somebody that has more a masculine energy and you feel like you're butting heads, then it's probably because you are of a masculine energy, too. So if two masculine energies come together, they're butting heads because they both want to take action and they both want to lead, they both want to protect, they both want to take decisions. So obviously they're fighting for the same space.
And on vice-versa; if you're more inclined to have a feminine energy and then you get into contact with somebody that's also feminine energy, then what it's going to do, there's going to be a lot of emotional sharing, a lot of talking, a lot of discussion, which is great at certain times, but sometimes it lacks the ability to take prompt decision and to take the space and to really push through. The masculine is more about pushing through and getting things done, and the feminine energy is about the nurturing and the healing and the expression.
So when you get into contact with, let's say your partner in life, then whether that person wakes up … because it can change on a daily basis. It can change on an instant. If that other person is more feeling feminine, what you need to do is to summon your masculine energy to really deeply connect with that person. If they're more on a masculine energy feel, then you need to summon your feminine energy to really connect deeply with that person.
Another example where you need to switch in a different direction, well, let's take me, for example. When I go shopping, I usually do some research on the internet before and then when I go to the store, I'm all about masculine energy. I want to get in, get what I need and then get out. I already know what I need so I don't need the salesperson to try to enable a relationship with me. I'm not going to be there ongoing … like not ongoing but for long-term. I don't want to see all the different models and I don't want the salesperson to explain to me what this is all about. I want the salesperson to be also masculine, to get me exactly where I want to be in the shortest amount of time possible. So I need somebody that is … I'm masculine and I need somebody that's masculine. So we do connect at that moment to get things done, get what I need as soon as possible.
Other times when I go to the restaurant, let's say because I am kinesthetic, I have to feel my environment and I have to feel what's the food that I'm going to eat. I really appreciate when the waiter or the waitress really takes time to connect with me, to say hi and to really explain to me the menu and to put some emotion into it. So because at the restaurant I'm more on a feminine and openness to connect and to really feel and express some emotional behavior, then I need a feminine waiter or waitress to connect with me and then to make my experience that much more powerful and that much more memorable for me.
So you see that in different situations you need to tweak or summon a different part of you to really connect with the person that's in front of you. So sometimes you need to go the opposite way. In an intimate relationship, most of the time you need to go on the opposite way, but then on certain situations, even with your partner, on certain situations you need to get things done or you need to nurture more, or if it's a weekend in front of the TV, your partner needs to cuddle and everything, then you need to have more of a feminine energy to cuddle with them, too. If it's more of like the two hours of cleaning per week, then if your partner is on "Let's get this done and let's do something else quickly," then you need to turn up your masculine energy to get things done and to move on to something else afterwards.
So I hope this concept resonates with you and that you get the two main ideas: that, one, everybody is blessed, but everybody has these two polars, energies in them, so masculine and feminine energy. We all have them and it has nothing to do with like a man doesn't necessarily have more masculine energy. Usually what happens is that the man is going to express more of his masculine energy, but he still has the feminine part in him, and vice-versa. For women, usually it's more of a feminine energy that they express but they do have the masculine energy when it needs to be expressed.
Also, we have both in us and also that we can summon each one whenever the situation fits to have them. So to make your relationships better and to connect deeper with the person that's in front of you, whether a family member, friends, intimate relationship, business relationship, whatever, to connect deeper to the person in front of you and to really break those communication barrier that seem to come up a lot of the times, then you know now that you can use your masculine or feminine energy to either match or polarize the other person's energy.
So I hope this helps you. Let me know in the comment how this is resonating with you and how you're going to use it in the future to really connect deeply with the person in front of you. I wish you all the best for this week. Next week I will be back with another video. Namaste. Take care of yourself and see you soon."