Ok, I’ll be the first to admit it. I am completely hooked on Steemit. I mean, aren’t you? Let’s be honest. How many times do you check your steem wallet?
If you’re anything like me, it’s an obsession. I’m monitoring my upvotes the same way I would monitor my blood pressure. Regularly and consistently. I can tell when my voting power hits 100% better than when I ovulate. I’m that attuned to it. Steemit has incorporated game theory, money and social media in a methamphetamine inspired frenzy of posts, upvotes and whale plumes. It’s getting so bad I can’t look at a kettle without thinking about steem. Thank god Steemit isn’t making dildos. I’d be well…. you get the picture.
We are all hooked, even harpooned.
But here’s the thing. If I were to ask you if Steemit was as important as your family, what would you say?
Is it more important than work? Did you install esteem on your phone? Do you check it at work? I know I do.
How about friends?
If I asked you honestly, have you given up time spent with real people to spend steemtime online what would you say?
I’m not knocking Steemit, far from it, this concept is a gamechanger. If you can get otherwise sedate motherly types (me) to obsess over the arcane magic of cryptocurrency, you’ve got a winner. At the same time you also have found the secret to compulsive behavior that will soon rival the very best of chemical addictions. I’m not the least bit interested in crack or weed. But I’ll take STEEM on every day without batting an eyelash.
So how can you tell if your compulsion to check your blog has become unhealthy?
Like all forms of addiction, if your time online has affected your life in a significant way, you may have a problem.
If your work life suffers, (have you considered blogging full time as a career or come dangerously close to flipping your boss the very best middle finger?), if your relationships suffer or are non existent (are you ignoring your family?), or if your social life takes a back seat (ignoring your friends?),- you may need to take a few steps back to re-evaluate. There is a possibility you may be addicted to the internet/steemit/social media/all of the above.
Addiction is about loss of control. An inability to regulate compulsive behavior until it becomes dominant, sacrificing your health and your relationships, in the process. Much research has been done on internet addiction, of which Steemit is the newest craze. The mystery of addiction lies in the biologic activity of the magic molecule dopamine. Surfing dopamine highs is part of the puzzle of addiction. The real highs from dopamine come from anticipation. Waiting to see what’s happening next. Did I get an upvote? Did I get a curation reward? How many resteems did I get? How many new followers?
Anticipation is the line of digital cocaine across your keyboard. Waiting with bated breath to see what’s next. That’s why we look at one youtube video after another. That’s why apps are designed to pull you into a video feed, one into the next and the next. Every time you wait with anticipation you get a dopamine hit. You feel great. And you set yourself up to wait with anticipation for the next video and the next hit until you loose track of time and half your day is lost in unproductive activity.
So what’s the solution?
I’ll be honest. There are no simple solutions. For the truly addicted, there is loss of impulse control. Real medical intervention is often needed to treat addictions that turn people inward on themselves flaming inside out till their lives are smoking shells. If you suspect you have an internet addiction, seek professional help. If you’re not completely lost, take a step back. Recognize that Steemit and the internet are tools meant to help you live better more productive lives.
In my own case, Steemit has sparked a flame of creativity I find hard to contain. I want to write, take pictures, cook, share my life, and knowledge almost moment to moment. I have to tell myself constantly, J, there is a real world out there. Go live in it, and in your spare time, have fun making STEEM.
I’ll ask you to do the same. Be mindful of time spent online; you can literally live the majority of your life in cyberspace and never experience the real, the beautiful, or the blessed. Isn't that what life is really about?
Think about it.
If you like my research, please consider giving me an upvote, a follow or a resteem. I'd love some encouragement.
Bless,
J.
Images courtesy Pixabay.
Steemit has supplanted my gaming (as it becomes a game itself) and my other social media-ing, but otherwise my life seems to be functioning normally. If I can get my friends on here, then it'll be just like normal.
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I think about what she said.. balance. I'm guessing once you have balance you should be all right. It's when your life is weighted too much online that things get out of whack.
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I'm mostly on Steemit at work. But sometimes it feels like work, i've got a budget of upvotes that I have to allocate out to other works I feel have created the best content
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Watch out for the proxy server monitor... you can get pulled up if you're using the company's pc to earn steem.
Lol. And yes, I try to give my upvotes out every day to help the community. I'm at 80% right now so I'm going to wait till tomorrow to give you guys some coinage. Lol. I get maybe 17 cents per upvote at full power...
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Yeah my workplace basically blocks steemit altogether. It pretends to load the page, but only gets so far before entering the infinite load circle of death.
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Lol. I've been there. Hmm. The infinite load circle of death.
I like it. Has a rhythm. Sounds almost poetic.
Was a time I longed for the taste of his breath
The sound of his fingers
Tickling my skin
So many years have passed
The memories of him
Linger
Beyond the infinite load circles of death.
Or something.
Lol
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Dear god, yes!
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Hey friend, started reading your stories. I'll follow and share some upvotes along the way. I have a little suggestion if you will allow me. There's a chat on discord that you could join if you are up to it. In the group, there's a channel called creative-fiction. I've found some good advice on writing in there, enough to make me up my game anyhow. Check it out. Rhondaks is super cool. If you ever get there, giver her a holler.
https://discord.gg/v3GpU4N
J.
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You know what is funny is that I actually created that channel last week with the help of aggroed and rhondak, but I have only been intermittently involved because of other responsibilities. Rhondak has done such good work making it into a vibrant place. I am glad that it is serving it's purpose and that you are enjoying it!
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Laughing. How would i have known? Thanks for creating a space for aspirants to find help!
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I'm still pretty new. How do you know what % power you're at? Is that only visible after reaching a certain threshold? I still don't have the option to select my voting power yet
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Yes you need to have about 500 Steempower to manually adjust the power of your votes I believe. By all accounts we have about 10-11 upvotes per day after which we deplete much of our voting power. I go to SteemD.com/@username (replace username with your own) and scroll down the left hand side of the page. Where it says voting power, you have a %. Try to keep it around 80 per day. That gives you time to recharge overnight and by the next day you're back up to 100 %.
I hope that makes sense. If if doesn't hit me back, I'll walk you through it again..
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great content! thanks for sharing! i like that it definitely goes deeper than the surface, but doesn't get too pedantic. you're talented!
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Nah, I just read a bunch. Sometimes things stick n I talk about them...
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Wow way to bust my bubble. There are way less productive things I could be doing than writing content for steemit though... :D
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Smiling. The challenge is to balance your online life with your real life. Both dimensions are important and you can suffer from too much time online. Addictions come in all forms. Steemit has the potential to be a powerful addictive agent. When you have to make time to do your chores and be with your family, you're going overboard. Lol. I have been.
Now I reign myself in. I allow myself 10 upvotes and then I leave Steemit till the next day.
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that got super positive near the end enjoyed the read i was in a trance it was like a beautiful poem I thank You for your Kind words Yahweh777 follow me I got you
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I'll get you back too but I don't know what's happening to Steemit tonight. Everything is taking so long to load....
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Gotcha. Following...
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Upvoted, for what teensy bit of coinage it's worth at the moment, lol, but definitely resteemed. I am a fan of your writing. :-)
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Smiling. Gosh, it's just me being me. Thank you for the support, that's why Steemit rocks. So many cool ppl here.
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Smoke steem everyday!
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LOL if only I could right? Hehe.
I'll stick to making coffee and earning it for now. I hope they never make fun toys though...
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Just had a thought. Sex is one of our most powerful motivators. Money, a close second. If you combined the two in a way that earns crypto...
Nah... who'd want to do that? Maybe a future sexworker?
Or even the neighborhood 'pusher'.
Addiction and crytptocurency. Sounds like a tsunami coming to a neighborhood near you.....
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I'm very addicted to Steem lol
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Don't let it take over your life my friend. Use it as a tool. Use it as entertainment. Don't use it as a real life substitute unless you are a professional blogger and that's all you do to earn a living. At least that's my opinion. I still have to get up and get to work. Take care of the kidlet and husband. And find time to read, play my guitar and take photographs. Steemit is only a part of my world, not my entire existence...
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Nice post. I am hooked. So many people with cool stuff, photos, music, my head is spinning. On the positive side I never had a platform I could relate to in the past. So now I want to record more music, take more photos, share more thoughts, so the positive side right now is way superior, but I didn't sleep enough this week, that's a fact....
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I know the feeling! I started following you! I enjoyed our chat last night on Discord. I took screenshots and I'm starting that story. Your a hard person to find on here!
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Grinning
The brainstorm was fun wasn't it? Grinning.
I must admit, I started a backstory, inspired by our chat. I'll post it for you to add to the full story.
Hugs.
J.
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Awesome, I'm working on the opening. I like what I have so far.
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Hey Legos, would you mind if I posted my short piece as a blog? I'm pretty much done with it and it's a vignette on our guy Larry helping a soul move forward...It can be worked into your bigger story as a backstory or even a prologue.
:)
Lemme know.
J.
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Go right ahead! I can't wait to see it!
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