Really? What's your secret? Define "deaf".
Imho is totally unrealistic to act like you are not impaired when you are, it;s all about dealing with it.
That being said, I guess each person has its own way to do go about this, saying stuff like "grow up!" especially when it comes to smth you can not control is kind of silly. I guess in line with the Albanian way of doing stuff..

Glad to see you are still around :D