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We need to be careful with our heart because we know that it could be deceived, hurt and especially most - be broken!
How and Who could do that to our heart is depends on Who and How we let them touch our feelings. Although we let our hearts open to anyone, we should still be cautious and observe them how they hold and touch our heart.
Source: https://pixabay.com/en/man-woman-love-family-together-3027767/
How can we do that?
1. Limit our association with that person.
For example, if the person is not careful in his words and actions that had an impact on our heart, we should limit our association with that person or don’t let our feelings not to get attached too much with that persons.
Source: https://pixabay.com/en/love-heart-broken-sad-unhappy-cry-1281655/
2. Act wisely and discreetly make a protective wall around our heart .
If the person is just trying to tickle our heart by making fun of it or flirting, we should act wisely and discreetly make a protective wall around our heart not to let them get close to it.
Source: https://pixabay.com/en/pair-heart-love-greeting-card-2204977/
3. Not giving - in immediately and Be observant!
At first, it's hard to know if that person is really sincere and serious about his/her feelings to you. To know that Take time, be Observant and be Friends first - there we can get to know them well and there we can think about how can we protect our heart.
Source: https://pixabay.com/en/stones-wall-heart-grey-background-608374/
But if the person is very careful and considerate on how his/her words can affect our feelings - is someone we could give and share our heart because we know he/she knows how to hold our heart carefully...
Source: https://pixabay.com/en/hands-heart-girls-women-woman-1150073/
Like a literal heart, we should be careful on the foods were taking into our body, choose those foods that can make our heart healthy. Same with our figurative heart we should be careful in choosing our associates/people that could influence our heart, choose those people whom we can trust enough that can make our heart happy!!
Source: https://pixabay.com/en/heart-curve-bless-you-healthy-665177/
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very well said sis..:)
We need to be wise when choosing our friends.:)
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Yes, indeed! Also for single ones when choosing their future mate 😊😊
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I'm known to break rules or tips. That explains why I'm hurting a lot hahahahahaha.
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Ouch!!😀😀😀 But anyway you've learned a lesson from your experience. Next time you know what to do.. He he he
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I learned it the hard way :( It was very much reflected in my poem "Red Light". Yeah I really need to follow your tips because I always end up expecting too much from people that don't appreciate and love me back. I'm a sad person
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I understand how you feel! We've been through that sad situations time to time since were living in an imperfect world. But always remember that "there is always sunshine after the rain" so come on, think that " good times will come as I get through this!" Divert sad moments into bright side of that situations to make you happy. Stay optimistic! Try to read the poem I posted here before: https://steemit.com/invisible-poem/@cutirenskei/am-i-invisible-or-not
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Yeah that is what I'm doing now with the help of my friends. Thanks a lot!
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Napapakanta tuloy ako, take your time and choose wisely.
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I was thinking of that song as well when I'm doing this article...
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Thanks for the post, and nice to meet you over in Discord.
Very well written. I appreciate that you use Image Source. Thanks again.
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Thanks for your help as well! You did well in guiding me there in Discord. I really appreciate it!
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very true. this is the first step for me tho
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Yes getting to know the person first is the first thing we should do. Take your time 😊😊
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