Is it possible to fall in love with a person you haven't met?

in hive-102306 •  4 years ago  (edited)

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Yes dear, it is possible but the thing is that this is from my personal experience what you think in your head or whatever he tells you online is not what it really is, I gave up everything literally I went part of the world to meet him he said I was alone he made me feel like he kissed me and we trusted each other

I thought true love was there and I found my man… but when we started living together for a few months he asked me when I would support him in America he told me it was best for our family and said it was stupidly my visa to only 3 months and I couldn't stay anyway so I did everything I could to bring him in America i went back and forth for 3 years trying to keep the relationship together and in those 3 years we had a baby together i thought for sure now things will be much better and closer…

he was very happy and excited when I told him then in less than 24 hours he told me to have an abortion so why? He said we can't raise a child in his country by saying "baby I can get a job we will be fine" I got a job interviewing an English teacher at a public school maybe 3 different schools my mother-in-law is completely damaged Come to me for an interview and ask the employer if I can do the job and let them know I am not a citizen. that I kept trying even though I knew it was going to hurt and the last one I got I went for an interview I got a job but the authorities told me that if I wanted to live in the country with my husband I had to have an abortion as ok but I also needed care and I didn't feel comfortable going to their hospitals.

but I couldn't get through the hardships I can't **** good health because of their selfishness so I told them I was keeping the baby they told me to separate from my husband and keep the papers open so he came what I did and I'm very dumb I'm sorry I know…

anyway i made you love and i thought maybe when she saw the baby she would want to be family again in the last few months and she didn't ask for a picture send money or actually no sponsorship i never said any further stupidity i'm sorry…

Months went by and the papers finally went away I thought it was okay when he saw the papers or left and saw me trying to say he would love me and I kept forgiving his character saying it was his family that made him, he really loves me I shouldn't have been so selfish so I called him and said in a few weeks he would be coming to America.

do you know what he said to me? "That's good! I'm so happy honey but I'll stay away for 6 months" I said why my darling? He said that it was a "deal" at first, so I said yes we would buy you a plane ticket because there was no child and we wanted you to see how we would be fine alone and with you in the new world so if things go wrong you can always go home and no strings attached… So I withdrew his sponsorship papers. and I reported this marriage as a scam which was the smartest thing I had ever done .. even 24 hours being served on divorce papers for some horrible allegations

I said "I tricked her" and I did everything on purpose so that I could use her to have a baby which is a dumb thing I have never heard

The point I am trying to make is this dear one and please listen carefully 100% it is very important that you take this advice,

all is well until you take away someone else's benefits everyone loves you until his or her need or benefit does that for you if you want to check it out tell that person that you will move there or that you want that person to come to you for sure and I repeat DON'T! Sign anything or whatever they tell you "there is no other way or anything they tell you there is always a way if they don't find a way tell them to get rid of the **** in your path.

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I have never been in love yet but I have read so many stories like this on fb. I'm sorry for what was gone through. But thank you for the valuable message you gave at last.

Human is the only living thing who is the hardest to identity and that is scary. We can't rely 100% on anyone I guess. Anyway at the end we only have ourselves. So stay strong!❤

And yes, there is always a way.

#slbmc

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I believe that we can not believe a person I have not met and have not talked before. Anyhow, rarely we find really good persons even though we have not seen them before.

So, my point of view is this topic has both sides. We need to be keen and intelligent to identify people we met at our day today life.

#slbmc