Focusing on yourself doesn't mean that you are selfish, but it means that you really care about yourself and your goals. So don't care about the negative words of others. Keep trust on your ambitions. No one else is going to do it for you. You get what you TOLERATE.

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You need to contrivance yourself. It will make a value for your win. Everyone has dreams, but everyone has no capability to face barriers. It is not enough dreaming, you just wanna make a commitment to achieve your goals. Sometimes we have to face bad incidents in our life. But if we worry about that bitter memory in our whole life and if you underrate yourself, you are really a FAILURE. Everyone has made mistakes at various times. So NEVER GIVE UP. The important thing is you must correct your mistakes. By correcting your mistakes and building up your abilities, then you can be a mature person.

I am sure that you all have heard about Jack Ma. He is one of the billionaires in the world. He created an online sale for the world. It's called “Alibaba.” He won the internet technology by his creative mind. He did not show much talent for education and failed twice in his first year of school. He also failed the secondary exam three times. But his passion was to learn English. He used his own method, as there were not enough facilities for this in China. But he did not lose his effort to learn English. Every day he went to the park and transported foreigners freely. He did not charge for it. But he communicates in English with them. Jack Ma says he applied for about 30 jobs but was turned down by all. He once applied for a job at KFC, where he and 24 others went for job interviews. Of these, 23 were selected and the only person who was rejected was Jack Ma. Eventually the English he learned with great dedication comes to him. He got an appointment as an English teacher. Then he started his journey.
“ Some called me crazy. They were told I was a failed man. Everyone rejected me. But I wanted to go so far that no one could reach out to me. I think today I have come on my journey. It is better to be crazy than to be stupid," says Jack, who happily recalls his past. Today He is one of the most successful men in the world.

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Ok, guys now I’m gonna tell you six points to wake up yourself. You can teach it by Jack Ma's story that I mentioned above. Please get it just as a motivational story. You do not be like jack ma. Each one is unique to the world. So be yourself. Those points are described in Nathaniyal Branden’s “The six pillars self-esteem” book. He was a Canadian - American physiotherapist.

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✨ Build your skills

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You must recognize your skills and improve it. Do not follow what others tell. You must believe in yourself. And remember to be unique in your skills. Sometimes your skills may be a very common thing in society. But you must be a unique character from the majority. Just practice! Practice! Practice !!.. You will be an expert in your field.

✨ Living in the present moment

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According to psychology, the person who remains about his bad memories in the past will never be a successful person. Because he always has negative points; Negative mind. If you give your full attention to the present moment you haven’t time to retain your bad memories. And also there is no value of remaining in the past. Past it passed. We can not correct our mistakes in the past. So it is useless. Dreaming about the future is also bad. I am not told here that there is no need to make plans for future ambitions. If you are always thinking about the future and worry about the future, there is some fear about it. You are always thinking about ``oh!! “if it does not come true?!!!” you can not work for your ambition. Think!! Your ambition is like a mission. You must make correct decisions and live in the moment. Then you can complete your mission.

✨ Practice self acceptance

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" Improve what you can and learn to what you can't "
Never try what you can not change. You are so unique. Do not try to change your skin color, natural look, etc. You are a winner by your birth. You are a unique character from each one. learn to Respect yourself. Do not imitate another one.

✨ Welcome failures in your road to success

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“Fail”. Do you feel fear even when you hear this word? No ! Never fear defeat. Falling again and again , it is a blessing in your life. You learn lessons from every failure . Welcome it to your life. Life is the ultimate lesson . All successful people have failed a lot of times. But they never give up. They stood up and tried again. In my opinion there is no word as “Luck”. Luck is on your mind. No one can achieve goals by luck!!! Just from creating opportunities and trails. Failure is the best teacher in our life. It will help you reach your ambitions . Do not get any stress for your life from it. Use it as a positive lesson .

✨ Living your life purposefully

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You should make a purpose in your lifetime. why do you live? What is the meaning of living? Make purposes. You can make them financially, religiously, or as your wish. A person who lives without a purpose, he is always in fear and doubtful about his life. He may have lost his free mind and self-confidence. So make a purpose for an easy life.

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✨ Understand your true authentic power

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Why do little babies not fear anything? Why do they communicate with others in their own language? Sometimes there is no meaning to what they told but they express their feelings. They created so many new things. They are always trying. When they come to age standing on foot they do it falling again and again with tears and smiles. They never give up. The only reason is they just focus on their AIM. They do not worry about who is surrounding them and what others are telling them. So I suggest thinking like them. I think you got my point correctly. If you are not allowed to be yourself and do not allow your goals, the society around you will become the largest prison in the world. And you will be a prisoner of it. So understand your power and believe it.