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In real life, I believe that most people are eager to meet genuine love and a partner who can "prosper" for themselves. Especially for men, it is a fortune to meet women with "hard life" attributes.
Of course, "hard life" in the traditional sense is to let men have more wealth, and what we want to say is that women can provide the greatest support to men in all aspects of life. This is in line with modern life. For his definition of "hard life".
Who doesn't want his life to be accompanied and supported by his lover? But how do we know if a woman has a "hard life"? In fact, this attribute is not born, but gradually develops in life, and has a lot to do with the woman herself.
Under normal circumstances, women have three types of "hard power," which are often called "hard lives."
Independent "hard power"
A woman with "life power", first has "hard power" independent, instead of giving her destiny to the man next to her.
In other words, even after leaving a man, you can still live a beautiful life, having your own career and abilities in marriage is the basis for a woman to reach the "hard working" level.
Whenever you are faced with a difficult situation, you need a guy's help. After all, you need men's help. Not even family and career can be taken care of. It will only exhaust a man's patience in married life and in the family. and careers will fail in chaos.
This kind of woman clearly does not have "hard power" independently and will only bring trouble and trouble to men. On the other hand, women who have this kind of "hard power" can help their families and men while developing their own careers. At least they have lifted "half the sky", and this is "Power Girl". Important performance.
Calm down "hard power"
Women with "super lives" are even calmer and calmer than men. She may not show up, but she can always give men what they need most at critical times, especially the "hard power" of calm and composure.
The way of life always fluctuates. When a man is impatient because of a difficult situation, if there is no one around him to comfort him, things will only get worse, and life itself will get worse because of this. rejection.
Some women are like this. Not only can't they provide any favors, they even add fuel and jealousy to the side, make men even more helpless, and get even more in trouble because of wrong decisions, whereas women just complain and don't like them. Let men fail to calm down.
On the other hand, a calm and calm woman with "hard power" can always provide the help men need most at critical moments, stopping them from thinking and resting, even words of encouragement, etc. The more insignificant the details, the more they can help men. Free yourself from difficult circumstances, this is the "super life" of a woman.
Loving "hard power"
Sometimes, a woman's ability to empathize is also a kind of "hard power", which not only makes a man feel love, but also works hard for this love and gives you a better life.
But in real life there are not many women who are attentive, they always feel that men should tolerate and understand women. In marriage, women must be strong-willed or irritable.
But the reality is that a woman's distrust not only affects the relationship between husband and wife, but also brings a series of contradictions. Anxiety and distrust in life also make men lose energy at work, resulting in married life. not satisfactory.
Therefore, if a woman is to live a happy married life and possess the attributes of a "superwoman", she must try to make herself understand a man, give her enough space to work at night, and feel it when she comes home. For warmth. and love.
Write at the end
Every woman is eager to have a "super life" in life, and men naturally want to meet such women, but not everyone deserves it, and that is quality and standard.
In many cases, instead of admiring others, we should allow ourselves to have these three "hard powers." Maybe you already have an invisible "super" attribute.
Therefore, it is better to improve yourself and provide the greatest assistance to men. At least don't mess around. In fact, "super life" is just rhetoric. When you do have it, you will feel that everything is destiny. The best arrangement, and the premise is that you have put in your best effort for it.