Two days ago, I had dinner with an old club leader.
Throughout the night, I discovered that he was different from the past. Because he didn't smoke before, but he didn't smoke today.
Asked for it and said he had stopped.
I thought it was very different, his smoking age was 20 years old, his wife said, colleagues persuaded him, but he couldn't quit altogether.
Basically you have to smoke two packs a day, how do you keep the packs clean and tidy?
After asking for details, he knew her helplessness.
More than a year ago, the headquarters moved to the Finance Building, with more than 100 floors, but no smoking areas.
If you want to smoke, you have to get off and walk to the side of the road.
It took a long time to get down from the 40th floor. There were still a lot of smokers below who were all employees.
He felt that the image of himself standing on the side of the road smoking was really odd, in other words he was also a top 500 executive.
So cruel, quit smoking.
I am also a person who has quit smoking, I know the pain when I just quit smoking, even though it can be said that I am thirsty for bones, but my heart is scratched.
Besides, my addiction to cigarettes is not that serious, I guess this guy is a few times more uncomfortable than me.
But the man said calmly, at first a little uncomfortable, and he still complained about the very inhuman design of the company's new building?
However, half a year after quitting smoking, my physical condition feels much better, and I'm grateful for this new building on the contrary.
Look at this problem and think about it, it's quite interesting.
In many cases, realistic helplessness, like the little devil, drains your body and mind.
However, time has passed, you can realize the special meaning of destiny, and when you enjoy the blessings of this change, you are often grateful.
When I first came out as a coach, I wasn't famous and very few people came to take courses.
I have a friend who worked as a coach as a coach 3 years ago.
Full queues every day, flying everywhere in the country.
His circle of friends was also very busy. He shows up in a new city every day and makes announcements at every turn, saying that the courses for the next three months are full. If you want to make an appointment, you have to make an appointment in advance ...
I often see that my heart is full of imbalances compared to my own loneliness right now.
In desperation, he could only read and write, who knew that after two years of writing, he had found a new path and found his own territory.
On the contrary, I thought, if I went out at the same time, I would not have time to write, and now I have absolutely no connection with official account management and network IP. Is this a bigger loss for me?
So when I say "this is the best arrangement", you must be thinking about chicken soup.
But fate is like a mysterious old man, always making you misunderstand his intentions.
You think he's using the new environment to punish you and make you suffer for not smoking.
In fact, he's using mandatory therapy to help you quit smoking.
You think he's purposely making it difficult and chilling you, but he really wants you to take a more picturesque path.
In many cases, helplessness is the best option, which will force you to overcome your natural weaknesses and lead yourself into the self you never expected.