To my mother-in-law with love

^{07 November 2024
#Bangladesh 🇧🇩}

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Greetings

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As-salamu Alaikum.
Hello Steemians! This is @arjinarahman .
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To My Mother-In-Law With Love

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How is your relationship with your mother-in-law?

	Me with my Mother-in-law

I have a close relationship with my mother in law as if we were close friend. She has always looked after me since I got married. She is treating me like her own daughter. She always try to understand my feelings and take good care of my needs. I can talk to her about any thing. Our relationship is so adorable. We have a friendly bond that you don’t always see. Our conversation is lively as we do share a number of common interests. We talk about different recipes, household chores and small life stories. Honestly, I really love spending time with her, whether we have something on or not, working doing something, just talking, or even going shopping.

Did you or would you live with your mother-in-law? How was the experience?

Family Time

Yes, I am living with my mother in law. It allows us to share our lives, and allows us to strengthen the family bond. It's been a very happy experinece. But at first, I got nervous for fear that I wouldn’t be able to fit in or that she would misunderstand me. She started to understand me over time, and it became very easy to live with her. She doesn’t try to change me, the same way I respect her as is. She’s taught me quite a lot about running a household, how to properly host guests and keep peace in the family. She often helps me patiently, but asks for me to ask her for her advice sometimes. Together living has become a joy and calm for me.

How did you make a good impression on your mother-in-law?

^{With Father-in-law & Mother-in -law}

I’ve always tried to show respect and love to my mother in law to make a good impression. I know her habits and lifestyle, her likes and dislikes. I’ve read between the lines to pay attention to her. I do small things - we cook together, look after the house in general, sometimes I cook for her so she can rest. I always listen to her, take her advice and try to see things from her perspective. More importantly, I try to keep an open and honest conversation with her. I have showed her respect and affection to create a perfect relationship with her.

Why is it so difficult for some people to get along with their mother-in-law?

Me with Husband & Mother-in-law

It’s no secret that some people have a hard time getting along with their mother-in-law. There is such a big generation different that’s such a big reason. The Indian mother in law her follows the old traditions and the daughter in law wants to live with new ideas. This can cause disagreements. On the other side there are many mothers in law who expect daughter in law to handle the house in a certain manner and daughter in law has a better idea to run the house. The daughter in law at times will value her own space and independence and the mother in law will want to follow family rules. It makes a smooth relationship a hard sell. I think any relationship can be improved if both sides know and respect each other. if we can understand and accept each other more and more the relationship will be better and better.

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