HOW TO MAKE PEOPLE LIKE YOU

THERE ARE VERY FEW KINDS OF INDIVIDUALS WHOM MOST PEOPLE FIND VERY CHARISMATIC AND FASCINATING. THEY HAVE TONS OF CONTACTS, AND PEOPLE ARE ALWAYS READY TO HELP THEM AND HANG OUT WITH THEM.

BUT THERE IS HARDLY ANY DIFFERENCE BETWEEN YOURS AND THEIR BEHAVIORS, AND YOU HAVE ALMOST SIMILAR TALKING PATTERNS,
THEN WHAT STOPS HAVING THE SAME SOCIAL STATUS AS THEM?

HUMAN NATURE TENDS TO BE SELFISH AND SELF-CENTERED. HAVE YOU NOTICED HOW ONCE A INDIVIDUAL WHO WAS CLOSE TO YOU SOME TIME AGO DURING SCHOOL/COLLEGE NOW IGNORES YOU AS YOU PASS BY,
OR IF YOU TRY TO START A CONVERSATION, HE IGNORES YOU BY GIVING SOME SILLY REASON.
WHAT'S CHANGED BETWEEN YOU AND HIM? A RELATIONSHIP THAT WAS ONCE A VERY STRONG, SACRED KIND BOND IS NOW HAS BEEN REDUCED JUST TO A SMALL TALK.

THE REASON, THE NEED IS OVER

THE REASON WHY THE RELATIONSHIP EXISTED IN THE FIRST PLACE EXISTED: A NEED TO SHARE FEELINGS, A NEED TO HAVE SOMEONE TO ASK HELP FROM, A NEED TO FEEL VALIDATED, AND A NEED TO SATISFY YOUR EGO. THEY USED YOU AS THEIR LUNCHBOX OR A TRASH TO DUMP THEIR EMOTIONS.

THE REASON WHY PEOPLE APPEAR CHARISMATIC AND ARE LIKED BY OTHERS. THEY ARE VERY GOOD AT DEVELOPING AND MAINTAINING NEEDS WHICH MAKE PEOPLE DRAWN TO THEM.

HOW COULD YOU USE THIS TO YOUR BENEFIT?
IN A NUTSHELL, DON'T LET THE NEED DIE AND NEVER GIVE PEOPLE WHAT THEY WANT ONCE. KEEP THEM CRAVING.
TALK LESS THAN NECESSARY
DON'T TELL THINGS UNLESS ASKED
HAVE ASSETS THAT WOULD MAKE PEOPLE DRAWN TO YOU (IT COULD BE YOUR SPECIFIC KNOWLEDGE AND SKILLS) {SOMETHING RARE}
BE PERSUASIVE
TALK AFFIRMATIVE
KEEP IT LIMITED
DON'T BE EASILY AVAILABLE

AFTER ALL, REMEMBER ONE THING

"A RELATION WOULD EXIST TODAY , ONLY BECAUSE OF A POSSIBILITY FOR A FAVOR WOULD EXIST TOMORROW"

"IF YOU HAVE OR CREATE SOMETHING SOMEONE NEEDS AND YOU COULD MAKE THEM CRAVE FOR IT , YOU OWE THE STRINGS TO THEIR MIND"

AND ALSO, DO NOT BE EASILY REPLACEABLE.