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In real life, getting too close to the opposite sex is not a good thing, especially if you already have a partner, it's more like a disaster.
People can envy people who are very close to the opposite sex. In fact, there are many things that need to be considered in close relationships of the opposite sex. A little carelessness will change tastes and bring many inevitable troubles.
Sometimes, people purposely avoid contact with the opposite sex, but most people tend to just remain polite, but forget that language that is too intimate can bring disaster to life.
As the saying goes: “Badness comes out of the mouth, sickness comes out of the mouth”, especially in heterosexual relationships, As close as your relationship is, these things will rot in your stomach, don't say it.
Ambiguous words
Not all heterosexual relationships are suitable for saying ambiguous words, especially once you have a partner, it just doesn't make sense for you to be together. If you speak more ambiguous words, it's very easy to cross the line.
If two people are single and their relationship is very close, no matter how ambiguous it is, that's normal. Even if the love spark was destroyed, it was normal, and no one would stand up and say that it was not allowed.
However, you clearly have your own love, even married, and still say ambiguous things to the opposite sex. Even if you don't have an idea, there's no guarantee other people won't, and it's easy to come and go. between you and me. Emotions that shouldn't exist.
Therefore, no matter how close the relationship between the opposite sex is, don't say anything ambiguous. It's easy to bring unnecessary trouble into your life. Once the relationship crosses the line, it's hard to turn around.
Talk about privacy
Some privacy is limited to love discussions, but you always mention it with the opposite sex you are close to. You think this is normal, but the dialogue between you has crossed the line.
Of course, if you want to catch up with each other and have no partner, it's okay to talk about privacy. It is a secret between you and a way to convey emotions.
However, if you are only in pure friendship, or if one of you already has a partner, but is still talking about mutual privacy, it will be very easy to make the other suspicious, and the relationship between you will become impure again. Maybe one step further is love, which is too much.
Therefore, no matter how close the relationship between the opposite sex is, you should not talk about privacy to your heart's content thinking it is your own right, but have gone beyond the basic lines of love and friendship invisibly, and no one can bear it.
Complaining about your partner
Some people always like to complain about their partner with the opposite sex. They clearly have their own love, but still look down on each other in front of the opposite sex. This will make people feel that the relationship between you is very abnormal.
You feel that the relationship between you is close to some degree, and you can complain about your partner in front of the opposite sex at will. You don't know that your performance has crossed the line, and it is quite possible that friendship will jump straight from friendship to love.
But this in itself is a kind of disadvantage for your partner. Even if you do have an opinion about your partner, or you don't love each other anymore, you can say it completely. There is no need to complain in front of the opposite sex. Not only meaningless, but also giving life Bringing trouble, why is this necessary?
So, how close the relationship is between the opposite sex, do not complain about your partner in front of other people, otherwise it will cause other people's daydreams, and sooner or later it will be passed on to the partner's ear, and it will not damage the relationship between each other.
Write at the end
Relationships between men and women are particularly prone to negative comments. Therefore, on the premise that you already have love, you must have a sense of size and bottom line in associating with the opposite sex. Do not feel that the relationship is close enough, you can feel free to speak a few words, it is easy to cause unnecessary trouble and even emotional upset.
Between the opposite sex, words and actions must have their own standards. Do not cross boundaries easily, let alone joke about love at will.