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The most comfortable relationships with others are nothing more than appreciating each other and giving each other adequate recognition.
Although there are certain gaps between people, in front of real friends, all of them are inferior to each other's feelings, and have nothing to do with wealth, status, or capital.
Someone who can be best friends will never seem condescending. It doesn't matter high or low, it's the same. Not only would he not only be jealous, but he would also sincerely bless each other. There is no such thing. as people who love each other, and who should show modesty.
As the saying goes, "A scholar dies for a confidant", it is the greatest honor in life to meet someone who truly understands and trusts himself, but if you meet someone who hates yourself, that is also the greatest sadness in your life. .
Time and time again, we have to learn to discern people's hearts, whether someone thinks of you as a confidant or looks down on you can be seen clearly in words and deeds.
Under normal circumstances, someone who says these three sentences to you actually looks down on you and stops being polite.
I'm speaking more honestly, it doesn't matter
People who actually treat you as a friend may also make jokes, but there is no mentality to belittle you, there will be no hurtful words between words, and they will consider your feelings before speaking.
However, people who don't treat you as a friend don't really care about how you feel. The words are full of irony, even in the end they say "I'm speaking more honestly, it's okay", which means they belittle you. He talks to you only for his own pleasure, and doesn't care what you think at all.
People who care and respect you take their own words very seriously when talking to you, so they won't make you feel bad. And self-deprecating people will always talk to you with arrogance, even belittle you, laugh at you, etc., and add sentences like no objection at the end.
Such a person seems outspoken, but his real intention is to humiliate you and not take you away at all. When you meet someone like that, you need to step away in time and stop being polite, and the other party doesn't even have the qualifications to be friends.
You are very good, do you still need me?
True friends should be in trouble with each other. Whatever you ask, the other party will agree without hesitation, and the words will be very polite, and sometimes they'll make a few jokes, but all of them are perfectly acceptable.
However, friends who only stay on the surface, and even those who look at you inwardly, will not only be cruelly rejected when you need their help, but they will even sarcastically say, "You are very strong, but you can still understand. me? ”It sounded like lifting you up into the sky at first, but wouldn't that be a mockery to you if you thought about it carefully?
To help you unconditionally, I hope hello people will feel warm and warm in their words, and will be busy with your business. And people who look down on you never care about your status quo, always refusing to help you in joking ways. Frankly, he doesn't take you seriously, so how can he help you?
Such a person seems to hold you high, but in fact he doesn't think of you in his heart at all, or even treats you as a friend from start to finish. Just staying away is the wisest choice, and dedication is certainly not required.
I really don't have time this time, let's talk about it another time
As a friend, whether you are seeking help from the other party or have time to gather, you are obliged to agree. Even if you really do not have time, you should also explain the reasons, and then take the initiative to seek you out after solving this problem life -life.
However, people who don't treat you as a friend, especially when they look down on you, will reject you for the same reason every time "I really don't have time, let's talk about it another time," even is that another reason? This can be considered as giving you a step, and I always reply like this all the time, which obviously I don't think of you as a real friend.
Someone who often ignores you may only look down on you. According to him, your existence is not important. After all, you don't match his status, so he won't care about your feelings, even if you make it clear, what can you do?
No matter what the circumstances, the person who often rejects you usually doesn't value your performance, and more frankly looks down on you. This kind of person doesn't need to be polite, and there's no point in doing more.
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People who really think of you as a friend will care about how you feel, will actively help you, and will hang out with you a lot. In fact, the so-called three or five confidants in life are nothing more than this. If you meet someone who treats you this way, you should value the friendship between you.
Of course, if someone doesn't treat you as a friend, or even puts you down, don't get into other people's circles. Even if you are polite, you cannot be a true friend, let alone know it. If it helps you, it won't take you to heart at all, so why bother?
The road ahead is very long, and it is inevitable to meet all kinds of people. I hope everyone we meet is worthy to socialize, find true confidants, support and help each other on the path of life, and work together towards a better tomorrow.