One of the things people are most afraid of is failing. Some people are so terrified of failing that they give up completely.
I'm one of many people who thinks that failing is shameful. It tarnished our honorable life. But I've only now come to the realization that failing is a crucial part of self-improvement.
Similar to how losing one game does not necessarily make you a loss, failing once, or even more than once, does not necessarily make you a failure. What actually makes you a failure is your conviction that you are one. That one action might alter your behavior, which might lead to a self-fulfilling prophecy
Failure in and of itself is failing to fail. Be a kid, make errors, try new things, and embrace your flaws.
Hear about how you blew it on the test, lost the contract, or made a fool of yourself during your presentation. This could make you question your abilities, and as a result, you might start to think of yourself as a failure.
That is a challenging course to follow.
Even with all of our efforts, there isn't much we can do to stop accidents or mishaps in life because they are, by definition, out of our control. There's no question they'll show up. We all make errors, whether due to poor choices, negligence, imprecision, or poor judgment, or even due to our own errors in judgment. Everyone is not perfect.
However, our reputation suffers when unlawful behaviors like lying, cheating, or stealing are repeated or done on purpose. Even if you really apologize after a wrongdoing, it could still take some time and effort to restore your reputation.
I only just found myself included in this category, and I'm not proud of it. I would not place blame or make any justifications. I want to fully embrace it and be ready to make amends.
I'm willing to take responsibility since I've learned that making excuses rarely gets you far. I'll be brave and take the blame for your failure because of it.
Consider my experience, reflect on my faults, make appropriate changes, and continue to develop myself.
Go back to what I like to do. Now that's writing..
