I changed my plans from getting married to him.

in hive-107855 •  4 months ago 

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As a young beautiful girl, I was lucky to have a friend who was there for me, he provides all my needs for me, with him I can say I lack nothing because before I could mention it he has provided it for me.

My love for him increased when he took me on a vacation and spent more than I could imagined.

I was happy with him, when I went for my youth service he was there for me. I told my mother about him, she was inquisitive of knowing what he is doing for a living.

I told my mother he was into export and import that was what he told me.

My mother's mind wasn't at rest considering how the guy spend on me.

Without wasting much time the guy got more serious in the relationship by taking me to his family to meet with his parents. When I got there I was relaxed hence he is the one for me. I mean he is the one I'm going to spend the rest of my life with. We stayed for some days and went back to our base.

One day, when I visited him at his place I open his laptop and I got the shout of my life unlike him. I was afraid to the point I wanted to go that night, he begged me and warned me not to ever go close to his working tools,

From that day ,I started noticing some abnormal behaviors from him but I ignored him.

He went to my parents house to declare his intentions about me . They told him I have the final say. On my side I started investigating him secretly.

Do you know what I discovered? It was a treble thing that could land someone in a big mess if caught. I told him that I have changed my plans towards getting married to him as planned. It was a big shock to him he didn't believe I could change my mind after his extravagant spending.

That was how I changed my plans guys. I'm happily married today with another man.

@wakeupkitty @inspiracion @yancar

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😤😬😂

Tell me why the story is incomplete, am waiting for season 2, things like this can make me to come to Uyo this night to hear the full story face to face and directly from the horse mouth. Am not saying you are a horse oo.😂

Am so excited that God gave you the opportunity to check his laptop that day, I was really curious while reading your story and is very important that you made a very wise decision as an adult. Something negative would have happened if you didn't handle the matter courageously.

People do alot of dirty business and cover up but there's always a way we get them and is very important we get them on time, some men don't want to work hard and earn money genuinely, they prefer to o negative things up and down.

Congratulations 👏 you got married to a wonderful man who's very responsible and handsome. I remember when I saw a picture of the both of you in your Facebook profile, the smile on his face was endless. I wish you good luck in this engagement challenge.

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Hahaha you don't need to come to my state for the full gist, just stay clued to my blog the story will unfold itself. Thanks for your kind words dear friend it was indeed a good change of plan.

Ok I will be waiting for the entire gist soon, although the most important thing is that you got the courage to change your plan.

Yes. That is my biggest happiness today

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Hi @okere-blessing

Oh - oh. Just hearing the words "import - export" together without adding the object or product being traded should have alerted the protagonist. 🤜👨‍✈️👩‍✈️👨‍⚖️

Friend, you left me wanting to find out:

  • a. What was the incredible surprise you got when you saw the laptop?

  • b. What was that triple threat?

I think that if you had suggested them, the story would have grown on its own.

Although you could have also become a partner in their import-export business. 🤣🤣 Those kinds of experiments in fantasy make fiction interesting.

Somethings are to be left unsaid. I didn't know then infact I was carried away by the spending. It was later I realized that I was trading a dangerous zone of which I could be a victim. Hmmmm it was pitiable hahahaha.

Upvoted! Thank you for supporting witness @jswit.

Welcome to Dream Steem!

What shall I say: A fortunate one (and a good mind and heart to boot!)

Saved in the nick of time. it was more than a stroke of luck that you found out about undesirable behavior. There are higher powers who step in from to time to help when someone is in danger. Like you finding what was on the computer. No accident. You are very fortunate indeed. stay safe.

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Me conformo, o mejor dicho, estoy satisfecho con un relato muy bien contado, que mantiene al lector atento desde el principio al final. No me importa desconocer los secretos de ese amigo. Cada acción, cada palabra, están ubicados con maestría para no decir más de lo que el narrador desea, para que nadie sepa más de la cuenta e imagine lo que le parezca, para que no sea un simple receptor, sino un lector activo. Felicitaciones por esta magnífica historia. Éxitos.

Thank you very much . It was a good change of plan.

  ·  4 months ago (edited)

Hi @okere-blessing, i hope you're doing good.

The very beginning of your story started with a lovely new relationship driving me to feel excited, seeing how your relationship went smooth amd enjoyable. I feel sad realizing how it ended but trust me you made a good decision.

Sometimes, decision can be very complicated especially when it comes to relationship matter, I guess it wasn't easy for you to change your mind about someone you really love, it was a heartbreak i guess.

Life is full of lesson, sometimes we feel frustrated and confused whether we should trust or not trust, **only God can help us find the rightful partner and I'm glad he helped you find one. I believe you're living a better lifestyle with your husband.

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I'll love to ask, what did you learn after breaking up with him? I love to learn from people and your answer can be a life lesson to us all.

You share an interesting story with us, honestly speaking your story is superb and i hope you keep sharing more of this with us.

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Wow, thanks for going through my post.

I learned not to be carried away with money when in a relationship with a wealthy person. Sometimes it's good to know what the person is doing to get the money.
In case you want to enter into a relationship you both should be truthful to each other, my guy lied to me that he was into import and export and I believe without asking more questions.

Super how you engage!

It's hard to tell if a person is honest it can seem that way. Cheater are very smart and know they aren't easily caught.

Ohkay.... your lesson is worth acknowledging and i acknowledge every word of yours, thanks for sharing..😊🤗

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Nice comment @kidi40

  ·  4 months ago (edited)

Thank you

Howie you doing?

i am rather busy and by now my son went to bed and I didn't cook so I will take a break and cook first so he has something to eat in the morning. How are you?

Ohh, I see a quality of a caring mom.😊

Anyway, I'm just coming back from work, i need to rest a bit before blogging.

Happy cooking, my regard to your son ..☺️☺️

  ·  4 months ago (edited)

Tienes una historia bastante increíble!

Es mejor dejar todo atrás y comenzar de nuevo, no es algo fácil y los cambios a veces son muy fuertes.

Dejaste atrás la idea de contraer matrimonio con esa persona, fuiste muy astuta al investigarlo pues eso fue lo mejor que pudiste haber hecho, el no era tu destino.

Ahora estás en en lugar correcto y cumpliendo tu destino.

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You have a pretty incredible story!

It is better to leave everything behind and start again, it is not easy and the changes are sometimes very strong.

You left behind the idea of ​​marrying that person, you were very astute when investigating it because that was the best thing you could have done, he was not your destiny.

Now you are in the right place and fulfilling your destiny.

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But wait oh… why will you give us incomplete story?? Please, we are still waiting to hear what you saw in the laptop oh!!

You can tell us, we don’t have “instablog” on Steemit, it won’t go viral. The gist is too sweet to stop half way!😊😊😊

I am glad you are happily married now and this time to someone earning a legit income!

Hahahaha, you can be the instablog on steemit who knows. But then the full story will unfold watch out.

Hello ma'am this task 2. @inspiracion

Dear, task 2 is the one you didn't do...

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