Love at First Sight or Spending Time Before Selecting Your Partner?

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Hello guys I'm glad to welcome you all to my blog today I hope all is well and you are all enjoying your day, today I will be talking part in another creative contest organised by @dove11 titled "Love at First Sight or Spending Time Before Selecting Your Partner?"

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It is indeed an interesting choice of contest and I really like the idea behind it, so today I will be sharing my own personal opinion about the above mentioned theme and I hope you all would find it interesting.

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INTRODUCTION

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Love at First Sight or Spending Time Before Selecting Your Partner? It is always very romantic and sweet when a man and a woman seeing each other for the first time fall in love together.

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And I always like it especially when you hear most couples saying that they saw each other once then they fell in love I'd always like that, you know love is an uncontrollable feeling that when once you are stunk by it you loose control.

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I do believe in love at first sight in a romantic scenerio though, but I think at the end there's always a problem because what if later on you'd discover that the person you'd fell in love with has an incurable disease or has a very bad character that doesn't suit your own personality.

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Because in life when you look at the pros you must also look at the cons, love at first sight is real and always very romantic but some of the problems associated with it after is what I don't like.

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Meanwhile I prefer spending time with my soon to be partner and knowing everything about her, I will have to know her likes and dislikes and choosing a partner is not just about falling in love with someone rather it's about finding a soul mate, your partner in crime, someone who likes what you like and dislike what you don't like.

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I prefer spending more time with her so that I would be able to know the real her, which includes the extent of her anger, as well as the things that can make her happy or sad.

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And when it comes to choosing a partner I'd prefer going for intelligence as well as beauty though sometimes beauty do lie and if she is not intelligence make her, train her, educate her the right way like the say "learning never stops"

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And also when it comes to choosing a life partner I mostly cherish personality, she must have a nice and appealing personality because if you notice there are some girls when you spend time with them you feel uncomfortable.

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Meanwhile there are some when you spend even a little time with them your mind is at rest and you just feel relaxed and comfortable those are the kind of partner I'm talking about.

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And though money in our today's world is everything and most people break their marital vows because of money meanwhile I think it's best we all try as much as we can to be financially stable before rushing into a relationship to avoid unnecessary heart break 💔.

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But for me personally I do not think that money is anything when it comes to true love because as long as you love someone and the feelings is mutual money becomes a mere liability.

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^{Love conquers all}

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^{I will like to invite @mercurysys @rey01v & @adylinah}

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Best regards @radleking

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