#club75

This is an amazing group with awesome write-ups on many different topics. I hope to add my writing to this club and make it just as interesting.

Hello, new club friends - my name on the site is yogablastdesigns. I am 48 years old a woman and mother of 4 beautiful and loving children now they are all almost grown. They have helped me become a mother who learned to protect love unconditionally and to be the proudest in the universe.

A mother was never given a manual when her child is born. You take the steps to become the best mother you can be. By trial and error the steps taken and the loving words a mother says to their child are the beginning of the life cycle of stepping into the shoes of motherhood.

The do's and don'ts are held with a strong tongue. Some words are stronger than others. "That's hot!" " Don't touch that son. (Protective mother mode) These are steps that we were taught by our mothers and fathers. They may have cried and thrown a fit and even tried to touch the fire. But still, we where there to say it over and over again. Because of the love a mother holds for her child. Not a mother who wants a child to learn on their own just how hot the fire is. The most important words a mother can ever say and teach her child is no matter what you become in this world. I am so proud of the person you have become. " I Love You," says to them that no matter the dos and don'ts said to them growing up the love a mother holds for them is beyond the universe itself.

We as mothers are here to teach ourselves not only the love a mother gives to her child. But just how much your children love You! Time goes by so fast there is no dial to slow it down. Memories are held to us, just as tight as we carried them in our womb, read them books, and sang to them while cradling them forever in our arms.

To hold their hands and laugh with them. Holding their bike seat as they take off on their first enduring bike ride. Knowing they will fall a few times as we run and pick them up give them hugs and wipe away the alligator tears they shed from the fall.

Yet, there we are putting them back on the very bike that caused them to cry. Knowing another fall is yet to come more than a few times. There we are holding the seat again for another fall and showing the love you hold for them again and again until they take off and ride the training wheels, of that very bike that hurt them and yet allowed them to learn that a little pain comes with enduring events in life to overcome. Yelling to them, "Way to go, you did it!" as they take off on their new journey of bike riding alone and growing up even more.

We as mothers have our manual of unconditional love. Just as they have for us. Our job is bigger than the words I love you! It's what children need to hear believe and feel. So when they grow up and have a child of their own. Our children's memories have built a manual to help guide them on their journey of teaching their children just how much love means and the love a mother holds for her child.
Good luck in the ever-changing world of motherhood and remember you build many memories that will add to your child's manual later in the life of this thing we call motherhood.