"For the eyes of the Lord are on the righteous, and their ears are attentive to their prayers; But the face of the Lord is against those who do evil.
1 Peter 3:12 (NKJ 1960)
God takes all things into account, no detail escapes him, and his word says it well, he is attentive to our prayers and everything else, even what we do not say, taking into account our best attitudes, but also the bad ones attitudes, and that's where the dilemma comes from.
Everyone according to what he has in his heart and according to his wisdom believes that he is always acting well and that he never does wrong, and thinking like that already makes us lack God, because he is the one who judges our behavior. And that is where all the questions begin to pass in our minds. Why did God forget me? Why do not you answer my prayers? Why do you bless others and not me?
God made us all worthy of his grace and co-heirs of his blessings, but this is for all who behave like their true children, so when we believe that we do not have answers from God, it can be for several reasons: because not yet it is time, because we have to wait on God, it may be because it does not suit us, and above all God wants to try and deal with our heart: then the complaint, the desire and disbelief, are not good allies for that response to be given and the blessings arrive.
Therefore when we act with those negative feelings, contrary to faith, hope, patience, fidelity, it makes us make wrong decisions that lead us to serious consequences, which makes us and others around us wrong, and that is where we also hurt God.
But it's never too late to make a mistake, to turn around and submit to the will of God, of course it's not easy but it's the best decision we can make, God always listens to us, does not respond when we want or what we want, does not want to say that he did not listen to us, the one who loves always listens and knows how to give the best.
God hears our prayers, which means that he will do something about it and will respond in time. He is no longer angry or distant, HE is love.
"I love Jehovah, for he has heard my voice and my supplications; because he has inclined his ear to me; therefore, I will invoke you in all my days. "