Even though most of us have been through a whole lot in life and have decided to build a wall around us to make us look strong on the outside just so we make people think we don't need anyone in our lives and can survive alone, the truth is no mam loves to stay alone, everyone at one point in their lives, need people to be there for them, people to let them know they can be weak, people to extend their helping hands to them and people to make them know everything will be fine.
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No man is an island and no man can survive in this world all alone, we all need people to live in this world the way we which to live and we need people to make us feel we are not living in this world all alone.
I know we are all going through battles of our own, I know we are each faced with challenges and struggles of our own but there is no harm in extending a helping hand to the other person irrespective of the battles we are going through because we need each other to survive.
I remember telling us how I was having a throbbing headache that won't go and even when I tried to sleep, I couldn't sleep, I think I have been having insomnia for the past weeks and no matter how hard I try to get a good night rest, I just can not and even when I want to have an afternoon nap, I just have to force myself to put myself to sleep just so the headache can subside a little because it affects my eyes.
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So yesterday a friend called me and told me she needed my help although it wasn't the best time to talk because of what I passing through but I had to let her pour out her problem when she was done pouting out what she was facing, I gave her the best advice I can get and she was relieved but then, she immediately asked me what was my problem and how she noticed I wasn't my cheerful self like I used to be and I was forced to tell her I was having a serious headache that wouldn't let me be. She advised me to take a nap but then, I told her how I have been finding difficulty sleeping in the afternoon and night as well except I have to force myself which isn't helping at all it only increases the throbbing headache more by the time I am awake.
And them, she asked me what the problem was and what I was thinking about that was causing me to have sleepless nights which I couldn't answer because I on the other hand can't grasp my head around what I have been thinking lately but do no I am disturbed and it has affected how I sleep but talking to her about everything and nothing, in particular, helped ease the tension I never knew was building up within me and I was grateful for that.
We were able to solve each other's problems even though I still had a hard time sleeping but then, I realized how much we need each other even when the other person is looking strong.
I know most times some of us could be an asshole to others which I get isn't bad because it makes us the world colourful but that doesn't mean we are not fighting to be strong and doesn't need someone to pat our back even when words can't explain what we are going through but such an act goes a long way to assure us that we are not alone in the fight and although it is our fight but we've got people who are willing to help us if we let them even when they've got their battles to fight.