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Anyone that leaves you never understood your assignment. If they do, they will stick with you doing the times of challenges so as to be the first partaker of your harvest.
Relationship is sacrifice and commitment.
If you enter with a parasite mindset, you will not last and won't be valued.
But if your mindset is structured as a contributor, blessed are thou. Because, your price is far above rubies.
The man you call stingy might be testing your ability to be patience in times of challenges.
Beloved, grow up into maturity. Relationship is not a poverty alleviation scheme. It's not a means to an end. It's not a salvation experience, where you are saved from all your hardships.
A God centered relationship believes God for the future together, and support each other to get there together. Any man that doesn't have a future need not to be in a relationship. Because the woman is a help meet, so if you don't have an assignment, and a future, what is she coming to help you achieve?
Work hard to be valuable. Discover God's plan and purpose for your life. A woman is helpless when the man has no vision. And no man desires a liability as a woman. Relationship is aimed at complementing each other and not devaluing and defrauding one another.
The reason why most relationships are not working is because, the mindset the two parties brought into the relationship is selfish. One came in with a parasite mentality, the other with a domineering mindset. The other came to loot while the other came to devalue.
The relationship that works must be that which everyone has something to offer towards the progress of the relationship. Be the giver and not only the receiver, stressing the person you claim you love.