Hello good afternoon friends, we are under serious attack here in Nigeria the heat here is really not joking at all we are under attack by the angry heat the only persons enjoying this weather are those that have air conditions installed at home, office or cars. Sometimes I purposefully go to the bank just for going sake not that am going to have any transactions, funny right the heat cause this not me hehe.
Well, am gonna talk about relationships and some causes of many breakups we have today. As a guy you don’t just walk up to a girl asking her out to be your girlfriend the question is can you or will you be able to care for her? This is where most of us guys get it all wrong we have zero in caring for someone which can be very dangerous for our love life. All these things should start with at-home care for your sisters and parents because I guess if you don’t know how to care for your family members at home you will find it difficult to care for an outsider.
Do you know that the key to a woman’s heart is mostly caring for them? Some just don’t want your money just make sure you care. You might wonder care how? Well, you should always ask about her health always make sure she is found try to find out and know what in you or things you do that she doesn’t like and try to change them. From time to time do things that will surprise her and make her smile. Don’t be a boring boyfriend, a girl like guys that are engaging and that always put smiles on their faces just crack jokes it might not always be you buying gifts for her and all of that but just try to be funny and romantic. give her attention do not be busy round the clock, create time for her.
Some girls might pretend they don’t like you asking them always how are you or how is your health but the truth is they like it just miss a day without calling to ask how they are and you will be surprised she will get angry at you. Relationship of two years got dismissed because of this same issue, she was operated on for appendicitis only for her boyfriend after hearing about it call asking her if it was painful instead of him to be around her and make her feel loved, and the worst of it is he refused to visit her giving different excuses and till she got discharged he refused to pay her a visit at her house.
Now when she decided to break up with him he began pleading for mercy hehe he wasn’t there when she needed him the most if you were the girl what will be your response to his attitude? I support her move to break up with him, because who knows if he could be able t do this now if the relationship eventually leads to marriage she will suffer it is better to make a good decision than regret she did later, how will you say you love someone and still feel less concern about them its only heartless and insane people behave like that. Love and care for that lady and God’s blessings will never leave you. I just wish this post motivates someone out there.