There's no doubt that how you dress, affect how you view yourself and how others treat you. An axiom says dress the way you want to be addressed. It is not wrong for you to be concerned about your dressing and appearance. In fact, every body should be concerned about their appearance before people. The way you appear and dress whether simple or classic, makes people respect, admire, appreciate nature and God or they criticize you.
No one wants to be associated with a joke, a person who lacks dress sense. However, don't be obsessed with your appearance that you spent your whole time, money and energy on dresses and looking good. Having dress sense doesn't necessarily mean having all colors of dresses, all styles at the same time, neither does being good looking means being tall, thin, fair in complexion or flexible.
But I think, having a dress sense, is ones ability to combine what he or she already have, what you can afford with right attitude and a good color combinations. You are your own original and not someone elses photocopy, so stop comparing your self to someone else. We all have personal preferences when it comes to dress sense and appearance but the common factor should be looking good in them.
In dressing, you should consider your image, reputation, body features, flaws, size and conscience. You shouldn't misplace the right combination suitable for you. Do not dwell on your flaws so much but rather appreciate your good features to your advantage.
In as much as dresses are of different sizes, styles and prices, learn to wear your size, choose your style, and buy what you can afford and the one you like to wear. People sweat to buy clothes that may not fit them or match their size, complexion or personality, just because it is said to be in vogue. I will feel comfortable and satisfied wearing clothes that are not in vogue but fits, rather than clothes that discomforts me.
There are dresses for different occasions like, graduation, dinner, interviews, promotion party, employment, house keeping, Church, office etc. Sort the right dress for the right occasions.
The desire to dress well runs in both men and women but most especially women associate self-esteem to a perfect outfit. Yes, the way you dress adds to your confidence and esteem but "NO", you don't really need a perfect outfit to be well and properly dressed. You do not also need all the expensive wears or accessories to go with your dress before you can be seen or admired.
All you need is the ability to
Choose dresses you can afford, the right colours or specified color.
Let it come with a proper combination, size, style and color. I'll fitting dresses make you feel more self-conscious and distracted.
Make use of the right accessories as long as it matches the dress ( most preferably black, brown or white for all purpose).
Avoid wearing twisted clothes, keep your dresses clean, washed, ironed and well folded.
Like what you wear and Wear what you like, the way you feel I'm your cloths has an impact on your self-esteem.
Indecent dressing is not good, so mind your dress sense