Be Careful In Choosing Friends

Steem4bloggers Friends.

Today I will discuss about friends and friendship. Friends are definitely important, because what is called a friend is said, if we hang out with friends who are perfume sellers, the scent will also smell like that. What I mean is this, if we are friends with people who smell of perfume, we smell of perfume. Being friends with the mafia, we are likely to become dealers, or users, even being friends with con artists, we will become con artists. The meaning of friends for me is, if friends are happy, I must also be happy, that's what friends are called.

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I am happy today, but you are not happy, that's not a friend. We are here, it doesn't matter where, or wherever you are. If there is a strong sense of friendship, I mean wherever you are, wherever, whether in the north, in the south, in the east, in the west, you are still my friend, like that.

Distance doesn't make a calculation, but honestly having friends like in the Steem4bloggers community, it's like my adrenaline is pumping. It feels like being in a palace, which has many offers of beauty and comfort. Here are some wise words, I took them from the internet, but never mind, of all of them, this is what struck me,

"A friend is not someone who can make problems disappear, but someone who doesn't disappear when we have problems".

That's the definition of a friend for me.

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Friend is actually an abbreviation, a friend is an abbreviation of the word, "Feels comfortable". So if there is a friend who feels comfortable, if we are close to him, we always feel comfortable, his mind is clear. Many people say that friends have a positive connotation, like the story of one of my friends on social media. I think this is a new case to reflect on. This is the story from my friend, he sent it in a WhatsApp group chat. He wants to be answered by wise friends on WhatsApp

My friend is a dominant person, even tends to be bossy, is there a solution?

Well that was the question

What if you get a friend like that? If I respond like this, so the case is actually, for example, maybe, the case is a woman who has been friends for almost 20 years. Friends from elementary school, then they haven't played for a long time, but are still in touch. When they go on an outing together, or a field trip, sorry I use language that is rarely used, or in today's children's language, a picnic with her family. Suddenly when talking a lot about her wow life, or glamorous.

So talking about High Class all the time, so it's as if he needs recognition. How can he make him understand or how to deal with a friend like this? So he talks about his bags, for example, almost all of them are Harmes brands.

Okay, now I want to ask, who here makes friends without choosing, not choosing status? You are all hypocrites. I don't believe you are human beings who want to be friends without looking at status. Only 0.0% can be like that. Do you know the definition of status? What do you think status is?

I'll be honest, I'm a selective person when making friends. Yes, of course status is broad. The definition of status according to KBBI (Big Indonesian Dictionary), is the state or position of a person, or so on in relation to the surrounding community.

Do we really want to be friends with someone who has the status of a rapist of 10 women, or do we want to be friends with someone who insults our religion, like the Ahok case yesterday, or with someone whose status is known for being two-faced. What I mean is that in front of us he is good, but behind his back he talks about bad things, or badmouths us?

Maybe you think I'm too mainstream. But what I mean is this, bad people also have friends, but people who want to be friends choose whether or not to be friends. Not everyone wants to be friends, there are also people who don't want to be friends with rich people, why? Because they are afraid that they will feel inferior, afraid that their language will not connect, afraid that they will be invited to go out to Hi class, in the end they are not able to follow.

But there are also people who actually like to be friends with rich people, because who knows they will be paid, who knows they will be dishonest, who knows there might be branded goods that they don't like anymore, they will give them to me. But the point is, in my opinion, friends must be chosen, if we are indeed not comfortable like the case earlier. If you are not comfortable with the situation, try to talk about it, if you really don't connect, then okay...bye...

Making friends does require being selective, we must be close with someone we can trust. So like this, we will tell everything to our friends, if we can't trust their friends, it can be dangerous, all our secrets will be told. And I always choose friends who can give me benefits, whatever the benefits are, not just about material things.

I become smarter, my worship becomes better. You can't just choose friends, you have to be selective.

Friends consist of T.E.M.A.N, and that means:

T, meaning Inseparable.

E, meaning It's good to be together.

M, meaning Always accompany.

A, meaning Will always help.

N, meaning Well, that's what friends mean.

So many types of friends, but I. So many types of friends, but I only have 3 types of friends, namely, the first, who helps us in trouble. The second, who leaves us in trouble. And the last, who puts us in trouble.

There are only three friends, can change from time to time. For once he might be my friend, but then it changed to just a friend, and now he is a former friend.

Let me tell you something, there is the letter "End" in the word Friend, there is the word ending in the word friend. And let me tell you, please listen to this carefully, there are eleven letters in the word "Best friends" (Please count). And also eleven letters in the word "Back stabber".

So be careful in choosing your friends, because you share feelings, share sadness, you share everything. Those are the types of friends. Hopefully useful, see you later.

Greetings always compact.

By @midiagam