Hi everyone, how are you today? I hope all are well without lacking anything. It's so nice to be back with you on this bright day, on the social media that we all love, yes, Steemit.
Okay! Let's get straight to it, today I will raise the theme, or discuss about friends who are cheating on friends. Everything that happens in life, there must be the best, this is related to the problem of being cheated on. In fact, we are grateful, when we were still dating we were cheated on, we were introduced to infidelity, when we had not yet stepped into a more serious level.
So in my opinion, it is a gift, even though when we experience it it hurts. But after we can get through it, we have to think about the benefits of being cheated on before getting married. So instead, we think that God gives what is called directly, so he is not the best person, and that friend is also not the best friend. We are opened directly to two things at once, it does hurt, but it is like a vaccine.
Basically, when someone gets cheated, as humans, we are bound to be hurt. But if it happens once, I still think about the friend's fortune. But if it happens twice, three times, we have to introspect. Why is it that every time someone is offered a friend, if we accept a friend, is it possible that we are also lacking in quality?
Secondly, we have to find a way, how can people, if someone uses us, contact us directly, not through a friend who is a cheater. So we open it online, for example, who uses it, this is just an example, for example using my services. Directly on my Instagram, to social media, I contact the person. So the chance of being cheated is smaller, because they already know.
"Oh, if you use me, go directly to that number"
If I am in a position where I am cheated, I talk to them, if they can't change, I leave them. Yes, I tell them, I beat them up a bit 😂,
Ahh, no. I don't like violence. So what I mean is this, for me personally, we have no obligation to compensate. If we are not compatible with that person, why force it, I suffer, he suffers.
So the point is if we really feel incompatible, we have the right, not enemies, right? But we keep our distance. Friends who like to corner us, for me are like enemies under a blanket. But I'm not afraid, because I wear a sarong. So this is it, that a friend means someone who is always there with us in any situation. Whether happy or sad, he is always there. I have some tips, so that you don't get cornered.
First, walk on a muddy road, or a slippery one, so that you don't get cornered, if he corners you, he slips, and falls.
Second, walk in a narrow alley, so that he can't corner you.
Third, walk on a path that God approves of, then you won't get cornered by a friend.
Here is a good quote before ending this article:
"True friendship is like a candle, it always lights up, even if it has to burn itself, but immediately blow out the flame, if your partner is in danger"
Hopefully useful, have a nice weekend.
Greetings always compact.
By @midiagam
nice
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Thanks you friend.
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