Assalamu Alaikum.

How are you all?? Hope everyone is doing well. By God's grace I am also quite well. Friends, after a long time, I came to you with a new post. Today I am going to participate in a contest.

I like the topic of this contest very much. In fact, today's contest is about how some parents in our society are leading their children to destruction through their harsh behavior, and how they are making their children good people. I like that very much.

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So without further ado let's get down to business.

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What are the advantages and disadvantages of parents strict behavior?

• Strict parenting has many advantages and disadvantages. They are:
  Advantages of strict parenting are:
  A child with strict behavior cannot indulge in more mischief, bad ways, illegal activities. And a discipline brings itself within it and can be beautifully human. And they start thinking of parents as friends.

• Disadvantages of strict behavior of parents are:
  Many times it is seen that children suffer from mental problems due to strict behavior of parents. They feel themselves confined within everything. They cannot express their creativity by doing only what their parents want them to do. This reverses the effect. At some point they start to feel helpless. Their temper becomes very irritable. Then they start misbehaving with parents and everyone.

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What do you feel if you were at the place of such children who have to face strictness?

• If I were in the place of such children I would feel very helpless. I felt very alone. Because the very harsh behavior of parents sometimes acts as a weapon to break a child mentally. Just as parents can make their children beautiful, their harsh behavior can destroy their future little by little.

• All parents try to keep their children in a discipline, so that the children are afraid of them. They do what they say, but they forget to think that children need a little freedom and emotional stimulation for their mental development.

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As a child, what do you expect from your parents regarding their behavior?

• As a child, what I expected from my parents in terms of their behavior:
  As a child I always expect good things from my parents. I will always ask for the support of my parents in all my work. As I am young I will not understand everything good and bad. But I want them to encourage me in my good work and praise me and help me to move forward well.

• Let them prevent me from my evil deeds, let them discipline me, tell me what is good and what is bad. Tell me what book my bad deed can bring me.

• Point out for me the good aspects of the actions that will definitely be good for me. If I do them now, it will be bad for me, not good.

Only then will I be able to adapt myself to the society, be able to keep pace with the era, be able to take myself to a level.

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What are the negative effects of emotional blackmailing?

• I think blackmail is never good for people. Any kind of blackmail puts a person under pressure. Due to blackmail, people cannot think in two directions, rather they have to think about the reason for blackmailing. A person is trapped by this. Then he has no way to think about good or bad.
  This blackmail works like a bane of people's lives. Blackmail is to extort something from someone by unfair means.

• And if that blackmail is emotional blackmail then there is no question. Emotional blackmail is pulling a person by their weakness. Where there is a weakness, ask for something from him by taking that weakness. This makes him unable to do anything else despite his reluctance which is why he has to do it through blackmail.

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Hope everyone will forgive me if I make any mistake.

I invite my friends @nahida1, @tammanna, @max-pro to participate in this Engagement Challenge.
Steemit Engagement Challenge S14W3 - Parent's Strict Behavior and Children's Mental Health

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