Steemit Engagement Challenge | S14W3 | Parent's Strict Behavior and Children's Mental Health

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To become parents is not an easy task. It is a god gifted matter.If god wants us bliss with child ,then we will be parents . Otherwise , we will not be able to be parents.In our society, we find that there are two kinds of parents .one kind of parents want strictly handle their children and on the other hand , another kind of parents want smoothly handle their children. Strict parenting can have some advantages but research find that it has some long time risk rather than its advantage. Parenting is one the most challenging tasks.To be a great parents is harder than any other thing.

What are the advantages of strict parental behavior?

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Strict parenting is good for a child .If the child obeys his parents properly , he will not engage himself any harmful activities. Strict parents teaches their children how to manage any situation . they teaches their child social norm sothat their child can learn social norm. Despite its some bad effect, strict parenting can bring some contribution in a child's development. Strict parents give their child a sense of discipline and responsibility their children by teaching them important life skills for example time management ,social norm, religion and so on. Strict parents set up boundary for their children which can promote respect , acceptable behavior and through their children can contribute to their social and academic success. Strict parents encourage their children for the development of self- control and self- discipline by allowing their children negative challenges ,regulate emotions and make thoughtful decisions.Strict parents can make their children for the demands of the real world by learning them perseverance , resilience and and the importance of hard work which can benefits them in the future life.

What are the disadvantages of strict parental behavior?

Strict parenting is a style of parenting in which they impose on their children strict rules and high discipline .They control their children strictly and donot allow their children to express their views. They do not allow their children to excercise many freedoms.Rather, they give them punishments as the primary form of discipline.They are very strict to make their children decision without asking them what they want or think about something.Strict parents are not attentive to their children needs which gradually create psychological problems among the children.They do not nurse their children properly that leads them feelings of insecurity and instability in their later life. Strict parenting affects the children mental health from early age and make them mentally sick. It's come to know from research that strict parenting feels the children depression and so on.We see that when a child has a strict parent , they do not get the opportunity to express them. It makes them introverted gradually.In conclusion, strict parenting can not bring good for a child.

What do you feel if you were at the place of such children who have to face strictness ?

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If I were in this condition I can feel many things. It is hard to make attention anything. I can not cope with my parents for their strict parenting.
Probably, I always feel sad and my emotions hunt me .In a word , I feel pressure and bore for my parents behavior.

As a child, what did you expect from your parents regarding their behavior?

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This is an interesting question.Of course, I hope my parents always help me to achieve my goal positively , guide me and support me always.Every one has some wills and dreams.In the same way , I have too some wills and dreams. to come true my wills and dreams , I can except support from my parents .I can except good behavior from parents in every sphere of my life. To make child educated ,it need not to be hard.If I mistake any ,I can not except rude behavior .I think they understand me to right my wrong in a positive manner.

What are the negative impacts of emotional blackmail?

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The most important thing of a child is to feel guilty even when they silly mistakes and it create pressure on their mind.A child who gets strict parenting from their parents they feel pressure and discomfort in this situation.So, we should as a parents listen our children attentively and listen what they want to do or they want to express or what their feelings about something . As a parents ,we have to understand them.

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