Steemit Engagement challenge season 14 week 3||The parents stric behaviors and kids mental health||

Assalamualaikum all my friends,I hope all of you good by the grace of almighty Allah who showering blessings on us as he promised,I am @sualeha from Pakistan it's pleasure for me to participate in wonderful engagement challenge season 14 week 3 hosting by #steem4bloggers community.

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🙍 What are the advantages and disadvantages of parents strict behaviour?

Well..... Parenting is not an easy task for parents,the big responsibilities Almighty hand over to parents.In fact I strongly believed that parents are best teacher ever for whole life for there kids ,for good training done time patents became strick behaved only to pushing them move forword.

• The strictness for discipline and education that's not a bad attitude of parents because in early age kids never knew what is good or bad for them so teachers and parents became strick behaved only for these well being and character building or personality shaping the results will definitely remarkable due to little bit strictness.

• It's best way to handle kids in politely and gentle way but some time the kids never understand orders in that situation parents shown some strictness but remembered that too much interface made kids stubborn and aggrasive and dis obedient and behaved badly .

🙍 What do you feel if you were at the place of such childrens who have to face strictness?

Well if i place that situation faced the strictness on me in my child hood time obeviosly I obeyed these orders but not with heart and negetive aggrasive emotions hidden in my mind and my mental health surly un balanced due to extra strict attitude of my parents,may be I leave my house due to mental and physical peace I believed that every one had right to took there life's dicision,the good balance is very important for friendly relationship between parents and kids gor strong foundation.

🙍 As a child, what do you expect from your parents regarding their behavior?

I really like the friendly environment and equal rights for all , parents respect there kids desires and support them with love and care,respact how they feel about goals of life in future , always encourage and motives them when they you g select there life partner for marriage accept by heart and trust on there decisions .

Well if I talk about my parents they both are very supportive and strength of mine as every aspect.My father is no more ,in my child hood he was striked as compared to my mom ,he wanted to see well educated and well mannered human being.My mon is light in nature but they never behaved mild all time , actually both were want disciplane in our life .Now I am applied all these good rules taught by my parents now in practice in my kids .

🙍 What are the negative effects of emotional blackmailing?

It's too bad habits if present in parents they spoiled his/her personality .The emotional support very valuable in your kids and directly effected on there personality.definality it's not the correct t way of treating matters by negetive support of emotional blackmailing they lost their confidence,trust and Relationship regarding there patents ,they feel shy and never gave socicty boldly ,relationships with their siblings and parents never Strong. So, It's critical to identify and deal with emotional black mailings 100% wrong and unehthecal so avoid these type of practice on kids .might be horrible situation faced.

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