Hot contest #07 | My Bestie

First and foremost I would love to appreciate this exciting community for giving me the opportunity to participate in this contest.
I want to gladly define what bestie is to me.

Bestie is a beautiful and eloquent sister or brother that teaches and exposes you to international elites.

In otherwords, A bestie is one that can be trusted, love and sincere.

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Like I said, even though I want to come in different voice. I would say that a Bestie is a person with designed archetypes. It's one that everyone wanna embrace. It's one who understands, appreciate your presence inspite of the situation, and wanna be with you nomatter what.

Everyone are not the same. For me, I have special flags to identify in ones behaviour (be it social, financial and otherwise). If this flags go green, it's a sign that such individual is real.

• You must be a secret keeper.

There are mouth-pest. They wanna talk whenever a situation jumped into them, be it good or bad. And once they begin, there's an option for your secrets to become their stamina. Fear this kind. For me, I sincerely love secret keepers.

• You must have the fear of God.

I understand. Not all bestie are Godly. And not all are ungodly. The truth is that, anyone that is Godly respect God first, and would not like to do things that will hurt you. One that is ungodly can cross the boundary because of little offense just to make sure you're painted black too.

Yes, it's rare! But somehow, this will be their utterances:

He did so to me. She did so to me. That's why I'm covered.

• You must know my choices.

The worst thing I will ever do is to ride a horse with one that is disrespectful. You must know my choice. What evident that you're my bestie when you don't know my choices. Know what I like and hate, so you won't cross boundary.

This is exactly what fix most homes with pains. When their besties are social parasites, secret exposers and so on.

• @succy happen to be one of the Steemians in this Blockchain. I truly desire to be with her irrespective of the bad season. She can pray. Kai! Fire burns when she prays. Even though other characters are heterozygous. There's one to grab, the praying Grace.

• @deetalka6. This guy is a witch-writer. I'm shock when he writes. Before I started #steemit, his voice pushed me to this standpoint. If @deetalka6 writes now, you will find joy to become his bestie. His voices are not just literal but inspiring.

• Thelma. This is one of the people that taught me how to laugh. Back then I was disastrous—not to be with.

Yeah! Several times. Understanding had always been my earnest standpoint. He will always shout when things go wrong, but I've never gave back the same volume to him. That will make him more insane with me. Instead, I will keep quiet and allow his temperance to reduce.

At such state, not that I'm good or wrong. Two wrongs cannot make a right. If I continue shouting while he is shouting too, the whole room may not contain us, so there's need to give him space.

Whenever his anger reduces, there's room for further adjustment. He listens too.

Friendship becomes easy and accomplish when both of you can flow together, and what causes that flowity is the ability to understand.

Ever since I maintained my route when things go wrong like these, I've been cited as a good material. I know it's hard to find girls like me. Unlike the state we are today, some girls are mad to be with. I guess 😏

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Besties are seasonal. They hardly come. You will find one rough one on the streets whose eyes shines for me. Run ooooh! Dey go chop you dry

I share 25% to @null accounts

I invite @ngoenyi, @patjewell and @benton3