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Thanks to the @saintkelvin17 for organizing this contest titled My reaction after being accused

Explain accusation in your own understanding.

In my own understanding, accusation is refer to false saying about someone or something, lie against someone or something.

A good example of accusation was done in the time past, when the people of old accuse Jesus Christ, they said lies against him, what He did not do, they said He did, while it was all accusation.

When referring to accusation, it means a lie, what is not true, what is against someone's beliefs, it may be stealing, killing, etc, all manners of evil doing that goes contrary to someone.

Tell us a situation whereby you were accused of something and how you felt.

There is this accusation that got me very angry last year, but that as been past action which am not taking so serious again.

When I was still apprentice, working for my boss as a computer operator, I normally goes to work by 7:30-8:00am closing by 5:00-5:30pm daily, sometimes we closes by 6:00 or even 7:00pm depending on the work we have at hand, anytime we close very late, I do arrive home late either will get to the house by 7pm or even 8pm any day we close so late. When I will return home, my mum will accuse me of always going to somewhere before I get back home, and this have been causing issues for me.

This accusation was making me feel so angry because, when I will come back from my stressful work and expecting to enter house peacefully and look for something and eat, they will just bring a matter and send me out with the hunger and tiredness.

Sometimes she will send me back telling me to go back to where am coming from, that am not coming from my workplace which is not so, I will be trying to defend myself but all to no avail, I will just have to keep quiet and just look for somewhere else and stay for the time.

This act has always been keeping me hungry and also keeps me in pain and tears, This continues for up to like 3months until a day it was so severe when I decided to tell my boss at workplace, and she decided to call my mum and discuss the issue with her, before she accepted of my late coming sometimes from work depending on the nature of work that day.

Was the truth finally out that you were innocent?

Sure, it was finally out, after I disclose the matter to my boss at workplace, my boss called my mum and explain the working nature and closing time to her understanding and that was how the accusation ended.

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Is it right to hate those who accuse us unnecessarily?

It is not good to hate anyone at any reason, people that accuses you may do all they did because of ignorance, if they later realize and turn from accusing you, there is no reason of hatred.

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