My reaction after being accused.

Hello beautiful steemian across the world 🌍 a warm greeting to you all. Hope your day is going smoothly. I remain @mbetobongluke and I'm super excited to participate in this amazing contest. Hosted by @saintkelvin my regards to him.

We all have been accused in one form or the other and these, we cannot take it away as long as we exist. I have been accused severally. I lost count of how many times I have been accused. Before I share with you few of my accusations, let me highlight what accusations are all about.

Accusation can be in a form of statement or claim by a witness or someone maybe in authority that a particular person has committed an offense or a crime. Although this has not yet been proved. This always comes with charge or fault. The aim is to make you suffer and to bring you down.

And it always looks confusing to the accused person. At some point, You become unsure of your reality and may decide to remain a victim.
On a long run, I come to understand that some accusations is always intentionally when they know the perfect truth. And that will always give them unique supply of their fake power over you. The aim is to make you suffer.To shift responsibility. Maybe they do not like being exposed.
I also realize that family assusation is to shift responsibilities to you. Maybe, to make you suffer and also to bring you down.

I lost count of how many times I have been accused. Just of recent I have been accused of stealing shovel from my workplace. let me share with you how I was accused and how I felt.

It was on a Saturday morning, we were asked to build a fence to secure his compound why the people in charge of moulding were asked to mould more blocks.I was with my bricklayer and the owner of the compound was about going for a meeting, so the man gave me the key to his tools store to hold till he returns from the meeting. Immediately, we started the work. Around 4pm, the people in charge of moulding were done with their own why we were still laying blocks. The people in charge of moulding waited for the man to come back and settle them so the can go. The waited for over an hour. At some point, the angrily left the place hoping to return when he comes back why we where still doing our own.
We did it till 6;25pm when the man returned. We finished up the work by 7pm. Since it was evening, we hurriedly dress up so we can reach home before it gets darker. I hand over the key to the man. The man told me to wait so he can confirm his tools. On checking, the man find out one of his shovel have missed. The man started accusing me of taking his shovel so I can be using it to work in another site. I disagree with the man, trying to explain myself that I am not the one. The man was so wild, he even said he can no longer trust me and that I should not come here again. And he even went as far as calling me a thief. The man was very wild till the extend of not paying me my wages. It was so unbecoming. As innocent as I was
I was so embarrassed by his choice of words. I have to leave the site crying and laying cause on him for accusing me of what I did not do.
After two days, the man called me and said he later saw the shovel that the moulders were the ones that took the shovel. He started apologizing... The embarrassment was too much I had to cut him off and block his line.

I believe there's nothing hidden under the sun whatsoever. The sun is so hot to the extent that, nothing can hide under it. The truth was later unveiled.
As human, I felt so embarrassed and unbecoming. But there's nothing I can do than to move on even though he later saw his shovel.

I feel there's no point hating them because, that will never change them. It will even eggers them to always find faults in you so the can bring you down. It think the main aim of accusing, is to make sure you suffer and to bring you down. We should always see accusations as part of storms and obstacles why growing rather than hating the accusers.

Once again a big thanks @saintkelvin For making this contest an interesting one to deliberate on.
Let me use this opportunity to respectfully invite @strong56 @missyleo and @drhira to participate in this contest.