Good day everyone and a happy new week to you all. I am here to remind us of something again. Have you ever asked yourself if you ever wronged anyone or your actions and inactions have hurt someone before?.
Let's be truthful to ourselves, sometimes some of the things we do hurt others so bad that somehow they can't even tell us but yet we often see ourselves as the saint while painting others as the nukes.
Most of us keep pointing fingers even when our words pierces others. Sometime re-evaluate the things you say to people, rethink the things you do to others, you might be hurting them low key but due to one reason or the other they might feel reluctant to let it out.
When you know you've hurt someone, be fast enough to apologize, do not let your ego take over you that you forget about someone's emotions and feelings. Be very careful of what you do to others because they might turn out to find you out tomorrow.
Do not always want to be the only one people apologize to, also apologize to others even when you know they wronged you, with this you will limit the weight of baggage you carry. Stop being so over confident about your saint-like nature, you are a human being and you are bound to step on people's toe.
Try to always put yourself in other people's shoe and see how it feels like to be hurt before you hurt others. This year should be a year of love and not spreading hate, the world is cruel enough, don't add to people's plight, it comes with a curse. Spread only positive energy and do not let the bad influence of this world get hold of you, I love you all.
Am not against apologizing but if you ask me, there's a situation where by you just need to be yourself. I know we all make mistakes but come on, not all the time . For me, I can be quiet, in fact you may see me as a introvert that's because you're not close to me or maybe i don't know you very well. But when I do you must surely enjoy my company. I Hope you're not thinking about spending money on you when I said you'll enjoy the company because you lied.... Hahahaha. But on the serious note. I always like to put other people in my shoe before doing anything. Let me give you an example.
In a rainy season, I wanted to go to work and rain started aggressively and I was looking for a shared but there was where to stay. But when I look I saw someone with umbrella. In my mind I was thinking maybe he would say oh come on, enter the umbrella, ..... Like trust me, that's what I was thinking at that time but I needed umbrella at that moment.
The second time, it's was rainy and all day when I close from work. The rain was heavy as even the main road was flooded. It's was around 9pm and the rain was drizzling. So I decided to take umbrella with me because it might start again at any minute. On my way, the same way I thought the rain started again. When I look back i saw someone who was trying to find a shade. When I remember what happen in the first experience, how happy i would have been if the person had ask me to joined me in the umbrella. So I called him to joined me, we walked together to the nearby bus stop where he boarded a cab to his destination. Trust me, man was happy as he even offered me money and I rejected it.
Before we do something let's ask ourselves if am the person, how would i react? What would I say, what would I do, would I be angry or happy? This will us us to be in Peace with everyone and build a healthy environment.
My little contribution.
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