Making Problems as Life Motivation

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Everyone has problems in his life. It's just that the problems they face are different. There are those who experience educational problems, financial problems, family problems, work problems, and various other problems.

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We are all different in facing, responding to, and solving every problem we face. There are problems that make the person depressed, weak and even feel a loss of self-esteem. However, there are also those who go to trouble to make that person better and even stronger than before.

Why can it happen like this? We are all human, but some are depressed because of problems and some are stronger and even more successful than before because of problems. All this happened not because of the size and number of problems faced, but because of the different attitude of each person towards each problem that exists. For that what is needed is how to deal with the problems and even make the problems a base to get up and jump to be even better than before.

Try the following ways to deal with this problem so that the load on your shoulders feels lighter and you can breathe easier. Here are tips on how to solve the problem that you can do

Pray

Because prayer is one of the means that every human being has to communicate with the Creator, both to express gratitude and to convey complaints and requests. So it would be nice when we face a problem, we ask to be able to face it and find a way out or a solution to the problem we are facing.

Try to learn from failure. Life is not always good, sometimes we are above and sometimes we are below. Remember that this is an inevitable ripening cycle and process. As with problems, accept reality while taking lessons from the failure at that time. Instill in yourself that you are a strong person to face and solve problems and become a better person in the future. Because in humans there are big and there are small. If you follow the small part you will become a small person and if you follow the big part you will become a big person.

Stay calm

After learning from mistakes, we should not panic and keep calm in the face of problems so that the mind remains clear. Convince yourself that nothing is not due to words, then accept it directly.

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Having this belief can certainly prevent us from being in a mental state, or thoughts that are full of stress and emotion, which will only prevent us from finding the best solution to overcome the problem. Convince yourself that everything has a beginning and an end. Try to find out what things came first and what things came after.

Think positively

Always have good judgment and positive thinking in all conditions, even when facing life's problems. Think that every problem or trial we experience is one of God's ways to make us better people than before.

This is written in Mengzi's book: "Thus, when God Almighty wants to make someone great, first his heart is struck, his sinews and bones are crushed, his body and skin starve, they are impoverished to the point of death." that he has nothing, and all his efforts are frustrated". Therefore, his heart was touched, his true character was strengthened, and his understanding of the things that he could not improve also increased. By reading and believing this verse, you can be sure that he can grow and add enthusiasm. For your heart

Be grateful for each current state. Forever grateful can be a way to solve problems. Due to this attitude, it will also change our perspective on our current life so that we can know the good things that we hate or do not like.

For example, if you are currently unemployed, you should be grateful that you are able to spend more time with your family. Or when Allah is being tested with a flooded house, be thankful that you and other family members still receive safety and health until now. When you're grateful, big trials can seem small. This positive energy will really help you to think positively and in the end you will come out with various solutions to solve problems.

Conclusion

How to solve this problem is not an easy matter. However, as long as we continue to have determination and a positive response to deal with all of these problems, we are sure that we will find a solution or way out of every problem we face.

Even though answering or dealing with these problems is not as easy as reading the three tips above, at least always having a positive attitude and thinking, it can make us stronger and bigger than the problems we face. Because every problem that has a beginning must have an end.

Hopefully we can all always make problems as a foothold to be able to jump higher, become better and more empowered human beings than before. Keep the spirit in life and continue to enjoy goodness in the works of virtue.