Hot contest #03 | Romance Of Love

Hello everyone here, Greetings from this end to you all in this community, i trust we are all doing good. I am v-brainer and i am so glad to make my first post and also take part in the contest with the title "Hot contest #03 | Romance Of Love" that is been organised by @fantvwiki in this community "Hot News Community". Please ride with me as i share my own thoughts on this contest and as well answer the few contest questions.

Romance of love is a very interesting topic to talk about because love and romance is not a new thing and is something people especially the youth of our time should have knowledge of, but before i go into the topic proper what is termed as love and what is termed as romance?

Romance

Romance can mean different things to so many people but in my own view , romance is a mutual relationship between two people who express their love or affection towards each other via their actions, attitude and behavior

Love

In my own understanding, love is a decision to the feeling of strong and constant affection for dedication to another either a person, amimal or a thing. It is a strong feeling of personal attachment or deep affection,
Both of them work hand in hand but note that; there can be romance without love.

Relationship and Love use to sound like a tale to me because of my first experience about being in love. My first relationship didn't go so well because i was literally the only person in the relationship. I loved her so much that i could do anything "i mean anything for her", it turned out to be that i was the only person doing the caring, afraid of breaking up. It wasn't so vleyar to me until i found out i wasn't even the main guy.

I had a bad feeling about being in a romance of love until last year when my perception changed about love. After my first relationship that didn't go well, i decided not to fall so hard in love again but i think i dissolved that thought last year when i found the right person, like saying goes"when you meet the right people everything will work out without stress".

My second and current relationship feels so different from the first one. I had always thought it was the duty of the man to do all the caring and loving but my current partner showed me that love is a two way thing. Love should be mutual and not one sided. Though it can't always be sweet, there are difficult times but the attitude of your partner in those difficult situations can tell you whether you are being loved. So in a nutshell, i feel so happy knowing the fact that i am with the right person.

Yes i do believe that true love can blind everything. Like i explained above in my own understanding of what love is, "love is a decision to the feeling of strong and constant affection for dedication to another either a person, amimal or a thing".

Like the saying goes "Love is Blind" gives me so much understanding that no matter the situation, trouble, trials or problem, you keep loving that person no matter what. This made me flash back on a picture i saw last week of couple holding hands while been taken a mugshot in police custody😅. It is really funny but i learnt something which is; no matter the condition, we should always love that person whom we have decided to love.

True love will pay deaf ears to the mistakes and wrong doings of one another. It's true love tgat makes people see their partner as the most beautiful woman or the most handsome man on earth. The ability to forgive and let go of those grudge shows love for that person.

My first love experience was not really smooth. I fell in the wrong hand, because i had no idea what been in a relationship was all about. Though my mindset is good because i had always thought that as a man, i was bound on doing all in all; the calling, the caring, the spending, and so on. I had always thought i was to give my all and have nothing in return.

I was actually cool with all that was going on then because my love was genuine, like i discussed earlier "love is blind", my eyes opened to all these things when i caught my partner cheating with another man and she never apologized, it was at that very point i knew that i was only a second option and the blind began to see again 😆.

My first love experience didn't go well and it took so many years before i found love again. Yes! I am in love again and this time the story is better. So far so good, it is going very smooth and good and hopefully it will yeild good results.

Yea sure, there are so many movies, novels, story and books about love and romance i have come across and will like to recommend but I'll be talking about one which is a Nigerian movie i watched recently with the title "Romeo and Janet".

The movie showcased how two love birds where initially deprived by their parents from getting along together. Their parent were totally against their relationship because of the issue both parents had in the past. Romeo and Janet despite the challenges, persisted and never gave up. Janet was kidnapped along the line and Romeo was one of the hero that saved Janet from the hands of the kidnappers. This made the family to settle their differences and the two love birds were aloud to get married.

Love is beautiful, love is patient, love is blind, love is kind, love is selfless, love is caring, love is affectionate, love is affectionate and most of all love is a decision so it's on us to never give up on that person whom we love.
Let me use this opportunity to invite my steemian @ishayachris @mfdo and @joymm to share their own view on Romance of Love.

Thank you all for reading through. I appreciate.