When will we stop measuring the sins of others and learn to account for our own sins?

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You call a boy who is looking for a fair-skinned friend a racist, but if you don't call a girlfriend who is looking for a house and a job greedy, then you are a liar, an opportunist and a liar.

I have a question for you before you hear your whining about the abuse of a drunken husband after marriage. Before marriage, he did not stop to ask about the salary of the pot, how many bighas of land, how many sisters there are, did not forget to ask everything, but did the boy read the prayers properly, read the biography of the Prophet, read a hundred beautiful books in one life Isn't it ridiculous to look for a character after marriage by looking at the house and car?

What we do most of the time is go to the grocery store to buy medicine and go to the drug store to buy meat. Now, when the grocer wraps glycerin in medicine, and you come home and open the packet and shout for glycerin, who is to blame? The grocer gave glycerin instead of medicine? Or did you go to the grocery store to buy medicine, yours?

I have pity for you, no sympathy.

A feminist friend sent a screenshot to the inbox (commenting)
There, a brother described the criteria of his wife, the girl can not be employed, can not run Facebook.

The girlfriend said quite angrily, do you think the product of the girls? Will you make it by order?

I say of course. This is a great injustice.
A few days ago, your sister got married to a government servant. Why not Dili with Baker ??

Her northern sister's choice.

This time I said, your sister may have a choice in government service and a boy who is not interested in a job, why can't a girl have a choice? Or only your daughters have the right to trade goods, not boys?

When a girl is given the condition of being fair, tall or pious, you hang the man if you can because of racism, and in the case of a boy's marriage, when there is a condition of being the only son of the government job, home, and parents, he is given the choice. Said, why this duplicity? Why this hypocrisy?

After writing an article for women, many brothers are sending a video link of a beaten engineer in Kolkata to their inbox, saying, what will you say now? Men are not abused?

The answer is of course. Rather, there is no denying that male abuse is on the rise in urban middle-class families. I did not deny that. On the contrary, violence against women is as true as violence against men. We must stand up against torture. What is the need to see the sex of the torturer?

It's important to protest when you see a girl saying "that stuff" or "that thing", but when girls see a boy and say "stupid", they have to talk about it, it's racism, it's a big rudeness I have never seen a girl write two pens about it !!

Feminist writers talk a lot about boys' hypocrisy, and it should be said. But how many writers have written about boys? There are thousands of articles against the sale of girls at the price of dowry, but why are you suppressing the understanding of the four million denominations imposed on the head of a boy?

He used the term "rape for the temptation of marriage" to try the girl who was cheated on in love, and after seven years of love, when he got married in the BCS cadre saying "you deserve someone better than me", why didn't it fall into the category of rape? Why not talk about the trial?

Poet has a very beautiful saying, we are all sinners, we measure the sins of others in the balance of our own sins.