Highly knowledgeable people really know how to be alone

in hive-111825 •  4 years ago 

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In real life, there are too many people who get lost in life without limits and fall into drifting situations, but there are still some people who haven't found their own circle in their entire life. crowd, walk alone.

If that's you, what kind of life should you miss? I think most people stand in a team that is in line with the crowd, and few people dare to live independently.

It cannot be denied that it is a blessing to be able to be accompanied by someone and walk hand in hand on the path of life, but that does not mean it is also a blessing to follow the crowd. If you can't get into a circle, what's wrong with being alone?

In most cases, being alone will get you a lot more. Even if you are lonely and lonely, at least you can think about yourself and understand the many principles of life.

In essence, life is a person's journey, but there will be some people who join in, such as family, relatives, friends, etc., but after all, they cannot be with them all the time, and some people even leave. early.

Regarding how you have to live this life, however, you still have to rely on yourself. If you always rely on the people around you, or if you don't have the ability to make a living at all, you will end up falling into a lonely situation.

Whereas, everything has two sides, just like one's years, there is loneliness and loneliness, but there is also a calm and a comfort that no one else can get.

I must say that feeling comfortable is a kind of physical and mental relaxation, finding a quiet place, enjoying the boundless beauty of nature, and feeling the real world in it.

Here, nothing will bother you, you don't have to worry about so-called strife, and you don't have to make any choices, live a quiet life, and think about life.

Life is always full of hustle and bustle. Most people yearn for a quiet life, but still it cannot be with the effort. They can only advance in life following the waves. Some people even experience stagnation.

Life is full of so many unknowns, no one can predict the future, but if you always don't have your own thoughts and often focus on the paths of most people, you will not reach the heights you desire, and even become more and more and more. more ordinary, so ordinary that she forgot what she looked like.

Most people have the mentality: you can't go wrong if you follow a large army. However, the reality is not like this. Sometimes, the more you follow trends, the easier it will be to lose yourself. On the other hand, you are increasingly unable to think. You are totally lost towards life and can only rely on other people to survive.

On the surface, he looks very smart, but in reality, he is slowly losing his original intent. The more he doesn't want to think, doesn't want to move forward alone, or even imitate others, how can that be considered his own life?

Life is not just copying other people's lives and attaching it to one's own body, what is the difference between a puppet without a thinking person? After all, it will only be manipulated by other people.

Since you are not cut out for group life, why should you join in on the fun? At this point, you should look for other ways to find your own way of being alone, which can have a tremendous effect and lead to a more enjoyable life.

Granted, contact is very important, but when you press your head to flatter others, or imitate others, can you really get anything? When you think someone will take the initiative to help you, how many people will help you in trouble? The contacts you call are nothing more than mutually used relationships.

Therefore, three or five confidants in life are enough, and there is no need to bite your fingers and beg to do things you don't like. If you have that time, it's better to be quiet and alone to make yourself stronger.

I have to admit that as you get stronger and stronger, all the connections, achievements, and so on, everything you have worked so hard for, will emerge at the same time.

Only those who are not strong enough can live with the currents, bite the bullets and beg others, and rely on those around them to survive. Those who are truly strong all know how to be alone and learn to live with themselves.

Only when a person learns to embrace a lonely soul and learns to speak to his own soul can he truly stand in the path of life. Be it running or walking, it is better than those who follow trends. People on the ground were more likely to succeed and were more dignified.

When you look back at the past, that time of loneliness, loneliness, and solitude, it turns out to be so beautiful and beautiful, and you will naturally feel proud and proud of yourself.

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