Club5050 || Writing : When I'm Wrong, Are You Right

Have you ever heard the parable,
"When I'm Wrong, Are You Right?"

What comes to mind when you hear this?

Many people in life, both in the real and virtual worlds, we often chatter with sharp words. Judging a problem without knowing who is right and who is wrong. When listening to Person A's version of the truth, some of those on Person A's side feel victimized. But, when he heard the story of Person B, it turned out that person B was not wrong either. This is a unique story if we do not know exactly and do not experience it firsthand. Commenting and judging others

A justification should be seen from various angles. Not seeing a problem from one point of view. Imagine if you look at a house building from the front, you will see the entrance with the windows. It's different if you look at the house from above, you will only see the precariousness. It will be different if you look at it from the left or right angles. You will only see the pointy part without knowing what it looks like front, back and top. Likewise with other people's problems that are not our problems. Worth commenting to be judged?

He was wrong, they were wrong, he was right and they were right, we were right and they were wrong. Is it worth judging? After all, you are nothing. Not the judge, let alone the party who was harmed and victimized. It's easier to find faults in others than to find fault with yourself. When you have the courage to determine someone is wrong and don't then judge him, you feel most right and other people are wrong. It is certain that you are a brave person, dare to be selfish.

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We need to remember, the nature of the existence of human life, apart from being individual beings as well as social beings. Humans are creatures created with perfection in the way of thinking and the way to control themselves. Humans are given lust and desire to achieve life goals, desires and needs of each through a variety of different characters.

However, with this diversity, sometimes what is desired does not match what is needed. Desire and lust that are never satisfied sometimes make humans greedy and a desire arises to put others aside in order to fulfill all desires that have not been realized. This is often the subject of gossip, problems and even clashes with one another.

If life is likened to a plate in a cupboard. These plates will certainly not collide with plates from other cabinets, but with plates in the cupboard itself. Some just cracked, split and even broke into pieces without residue. Likewise with life, we often intersect with one another. The variety of characters, social life, habits, religion, environment are some of the triggers behind a debate.

In general, with all the debates going on. Each side has a justification argument that is equally true. Not at all wrong to end the debate. Feeling aggrieved, betrayed and then looking for sympathy here and there to gain empathy. This is mostly done for those who have admitted a mistake that was made but do not want to admit that mistake. Though life is not alone, live together with those who have the same desires and desires. Don't be easily provoked. Be mature with the mindset that should be, not forcing the will.

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Admitting a mistake and then correcting it is a form of self-respect. It is certain that when we cannot respect others, it means the same as not respecting ourselves. Blaming other people for the problems that occur is not a commendable thing. Creating drama and prolonged conflict as the only person who wants to be understood. Judging others because personal desires are not fulfilled. Is it worth it?

Life is not just living. There are other people we need to respect, not judge. Right is not always right so wrong is not always wrong. It's good for us to introspect ourselves from just judging other people, be it friends, colleagues, relatives or the lives of other people we never know at all. So is it appropriate to feel right and blame someone else for something that happened? Even if he or they are wrong, you don't have to be the judge of his life

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@belenguerra || @fendit