LOVE THAT ARISES FOR SOMEONE

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It's been almost 15 years. I went to church summer for 2 days 1 night. Usually, I don't like to make other people uncomfortable, so I take a one-day course, or even if it's a one-night schedule, I leave that day or come home early the next morning. It is true that my heart always wants to fulfill all schedules. The weather is so good because God knows a heart like that.

I don't shy away from the midsummer scorching heat, and I'm happy to see the juniors emit boundless energy, but there are always obstacles in my body, and I have to swallow the regret that I can't be with them all the time. time. Once, the priest said, “Tears. You go on a date with me. “make a proposal that

All the juniors exclaimed “Oh~~” , but it was easy to understand what those words meant to me. That's what compassion means. It is also a series of responsibilities.

Everyone was bitten, and finally the priest and I were left in the vast hall. “We didn't have as many deep conversations as we thought,” said the first pastor, and said let's talk frankly without worrying about gender differences.

In the end, the priest took the initiative in the story. Even when asked if he had any worries, he lied and pretended that everything was fine.

For me, it's kind of a consideration to put the burden down as soon as possible, because I will only thank you for your responsibility and affection. However, the priest shook his head as if he expected my attitude and said, "If I don't talk about it now, my time cut off for you will be meaningless." and play mind games.

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He also noticed, but the only way this situation could develop was, ironically, losing the game.

After much deliberation, he finally talked about dating, and in the process, he revealed the old things, and said that the problem is people's eyes, that is, the meeting gaze between disabled and non-disabled people. He added that even if it wasn't because of him, it could happen again in the future.

For me, love is reality, not fantasy. Therefore, the fairy tale point of view that 'we are happy for a long time' because we love each other doesn't work. My partner must be non-disabled. You might think it's assertive, but for me at least, that's because it's an essential element, not a conditional element.

I thought the pastor wanted this kind of heavy story, so I agreed. The Priestess' pupils seemed to tremble slightly.

A lot is said, but the point is simple. Disability, but your mind doesn't seem to recognize the disorder because the world he loved me when I decided to get married, you will also consider people with disabilities to be non-disabled, not just stubborn. It might seem funny that a disabled man doesn't think of a disabled woman as being of the opposite sex.

Again, although I say that this is not a matter of tolerance, the story ends by saying that time will tell. According to the ending, I was in a situation where I couldn't even love the way I wanted to.

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Now, 15 years have passed since then, has time really changed my mind? no, it's the same On the contrary, now stronger. And just as my thoughts haven't changed, the public's way of thinking about meeting each other hasn't changed either.

The scornful contradiction when a person with a disability wants to date and marry a non-disabled while setting a social edge says that modern love is instant and conditional.

Even if you marry a non-disabled person, you won't be able to help smoothly, but where does the logic of asking someone to meet like-minded people in the next best possible way come from? Of course, it's been a while since I stopped thinking about marriage, so I can just leave it alone...

The reason I adhered to the principle in the past enough to make others feel stubborn is not because I don't admit my disability, but because I acknowledge my disability and understand my situation well.

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