Impatient Victim

in hive-111825 •  4 years ago 

Looks like there are problems with a few nodes. Although there is a tendency to sort these things in a timely manner. There was an announcement about a burning of their hosting service data centers. Which they can now do as soon as they move to the backup system. As they say, stay calm, don't panic.

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Nowadays, I think we have such a level of digital availability. Which we have lost our sense of patience when our normal activities are interrupted. Much of what we do online gradually makes us more aware of the "wet times" and we are constantly reminded of the anomaly combined with the tendency to check and refresh our screens wherever they are every 14 nanoseconds.

It’s not just digital, as our trend (on average) is to gain more access to all kinds of products and services in the past, except for the usual waiting time. The shows of our lives have become “on demand” from the shows we show, the food we eat and even the dates we give that we never have to be patient.

Virtue is more than having morality. It is also about other things and traditionally, it is related to heroism and purity, strength and competence, competence is related to the quality of skill or attribute, which is judiciously used as patience.

Patience does not wait to get what it wants, it also allows it to stay calm and let something develop or build. Patience gives bandwidth the opportunity to focus on other things when what was wanted is running in the background. I think like not being able to show patience, a lot of people are losing the ability to be effective if they don't get what they want right away. Instead, it seems that many people are hyper-sensitive to detect every felt “little” against them and to widen and widen it to a much larger size than it deserves.

The hills outside Molhill.

And once this thing is ignited in the mind, it makes it harder to let go instead of being a little bit. It has now become a threat or an injury and we are diminished by its presence and feel harmed. Lots of social factors are driven by this growing and often suicidal feeling, where one person may find a group of similarly injured people and blame another group for their position on earth. From here, all sorts of behaviors can be justified in the ramping effect. Which often leads to various forms of violence.

It all starts in the mind.

It’s easy to say that “perspective is everything”, but how many people actually discover and reflect on what it means to own their own experience. Instead, people are freed from the responsibility of dealing with themselves by completely ignoring the harm that their neutral emotional-driven activities can do to the world and the consequences of its actions.

What many don't seem to understand is that everyone has the ability to feel their own way, but only when these feelings are thrown into the world. Then they become “public property” as they begin to influence the lives of others. It doesn’t matter if it fits laughter or anger, it affects the world. A response occurs for each activity and the resulting response is usually going to be a reflection of the initial input. Often the echo expands, especially in negative cases.

When anger is pushed into the world it becomes a threat to the experience of others and the intuitive response is to build a defense system to protect and then remove the source of the threat. If people are constantly erupting in anger at the mullahs. People in the neighborhood will turn around because they don't want to get caught in the cyclone, they don't want to lead themselves to harm. Due to lack of confidence, when they have to be unfaithful, they tiptoe.

Online, however, the need for tiptowing is much less, because the screen has protection, which means less results for the action. So the response is high. The same environment is the home of people who find the tendency to react, and it can become quite a toxic environment that becomes increasingly more polarized in a growing number of ways until there is no way to establish a broader relationship with someone. Because there are a lot of “deal breaker” points to reduce it. It helps to make growing connections and, in order to increase the sense of prey, has spent more time turning these mills into mountains.

Everyone is “entitled” to their passion but they have to remember that they are about to own it. If you mean what you mean by ownership, you are able to control the thing you own. Those who want to "express themselves incompletely" are in a narrow position. As if they can't control their emotional tendencies. Their passions no longer belong to them and they become public property, which means they no longer own their passions. But they will have to survive the consequences of their captivity, telling what to do and when to do it - a victim themselves.

Patience is a virtue - and value has many more skills. Some leave their attitudes to chance, while others find ways to own their own experiences.

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