"Let's talk about other people's bodies" 🤐

Hello friends and welcome t my article on this great community. I am more than ready to share my thoughts in this great contest as organised by a great leader in the person of @franyeligonzalez I do hope you enjoy my article too.

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1. "We don't talk about people's bodies." What do you think about this phrase? Do you agree? Justify your answer

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Body shaming is a bad social vice which has gotten so rampant in the society today. It is not really a great way of addressing people.i havr seen lots of people body shaming others and it just doesn't seem right with me. "We don't talk about people's bodies" We must all love people no matter their faces, races or ethnicity.

Furthermore, most people appear just the way they are, just because of one condition or the other, it could be due to post traumatic stress disorder or other psychological issues. It's quite expedient that we embrace people the way they are and not act indifferently t them because who knows tomorrow. You might find yourself in same condition having to be forced to look like people you talk down. The tables most definitely turns!

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2. "How do you currently feel about your body and what you see in the mirror?" Is there any area you would like to improve?

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I am a really interesting guy who loves myself to the fullest. I have been so handsome for a good long time and I a growing so fast into a man. I have new hubbies and habits to crown it all. I am approaching near perfection although it doesn't look easy. Whenever I look into the mirror I see an accomplisher. I have accomplished almost all my dreams for the year already although it's not yet over. I always see myself as a strong youth who fights to make progress without seeing obstacles. Moreso, in my life I would love to improve my physical appearance, I see the likes of Dwayne Johnson and I want to look more like him. I see power lifters and body builders and believe I would get to hit the gym soon.

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3. "What would you say to someone who made or issued a negative comment about your physical appearance? And how would it make you feel?"

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When someone says a negative comment about my physical appearance I guess I'm so egocentric, high self esteem I would definitely protect my interest by standing up to myself. I would put the person to check immediately. Shunning someone at the spot is something we must learn to do. Boundaries are not meant to be crossed and there are things we shouldn't tolerate, so we must learn not to take "spit on the face comments" from people too.

Values like discipline, self control would help you so much. You must not get into domestic violence but reprimand such people and go in with your life. It would indeed "poke on the ice" of the way I see myself. I would feel hurt as a human with emotions, but would get motivated and pick myself up immediately.

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4. "What do you think about the decisions to undergo surgery to change some aspect of your body and thus be able to have a better quality of life? ( Plastic and bariatric surgeries)"

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Personally, I am proud of myself, I do not feel the urge to undergo surgery of some sort. I have a beautiful light tone of skin, a perfect face, good looks and heights too. If at all there would be a improvement, that would be working out too. I do not see any need of getting all patched up in one way or the other. From where I come from cultural values are held in high esteem and I would really love to be the way I am beautifully created. I have a good life and a better quality of life could be achieved by hard work and not undergoing any surgery of some sort.

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5. "If you could give a message to someone who is currently unhappy with their body , what message would it be"

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sourcea goodwill message to special ones!

Hey! buddy I really believe you are still hanging in there, you are really pretty beautiful, you can be a better version of yourself! Looks basically don't matter, personality development is crucial to getting yourself to the point you are expecting to be at. I believe you should read more motivational books and personality development bulletins too. Try in all possible way to believe in yourself and make the best out of every opportunity given to you in one way or the other.

I invite @lirvic @shiftitamanna @patjewell @suboohi to share their thoughts expressly in the great contest

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