SEC S11W1: Challenging your beliefs about Maternity and Paternity | Challenging Your Beliefs about Motherhood and Fatherhood

I hope you all are good and doing well. Today I'm here to be a part of this amazing contest "SEC S11W1: Challenging your beliefs about Maternity and Paternity", I like this topic so I will share my thoughts on this topic. Let's start the contest.

1- Do you think a man or a woman is incomplete if they are not a father or a mother? why?

I totally agreed with the above statement that a man or a woman is incomplete if they are not a father or a mother but the idea that a person is incomplete if they are not a father or a mother is a subjective viewpoint that varies across cultures, societies, and individuals. Historically, many cultures have placed a strong emphasis on procreation and parenthood as a fundamental aspect of human life, but this perspective is evolving with changing societal norms and attitudes.

2- Do you think a parent should put aside their goals or dreams for their children? Explain your answer.

All parents do all possible things to achieve the goals and dreams of their children. I have seen many parents who sacrifices their all desires for their children. In my family my uncle who was a labor staff in garment factory, did double duty to fulfill the expense of his son. He sold out his motor bike for the admission of his son in a university.

My husband works very hard for children. He's trying to give all facilities and comfort to the children. He facedany problems in his younger age, so he sacrificing his comfort for family and giving them all happiness of life that they need.

3- What is your view of people who choose not to have children?

The people who choose not to have children may have some issues like finencial problem, infertility, lack of health, they may have some additional responsibilities like take care of their old and paralysed parent etc.

4- Do you consider that in order to be a mother or father there must be ideal conditions (economic, social and physical and mental health)? why?

I'm a Muslim alhumdulilah so in my religion giving birth a child is reward by Allah and it's our Eman (faith) every child brings his fate and everything. I'm our relegion family planning is prohibited if someone is doing in fear of money. In Quran Allah says "don't kill your child in fear of sustenance, I give you sustenance and will give to your child"

If mother health doesn't allow to give new birth then you can stop the birth of new one. But every one has their own priorities regarding their culture, religion and surrounding.

That's all from me. I would like to invite @sualeha, @uzma4882 and @artist1111 for the contest.

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@suboohi