My Love For Mom

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I'm @muthu14
#srilanka

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A mother is the first teacher and the first friend of her children. The love of a child for its mother cannot be overstated. We show such boundless love to our mother.mother is the most powerful woman in the universe.

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My mother Malani. She is a 56-year-old very hardworking housewife. So she gave birth to me in this world without any deficiency by milking her from my childhood. I am still studying under the warmth of my mother. As children, our first objective is to treat our mother in the best possible way without ever starving us.

In today's society, we have heard about the harassment of mothers by daughters. Every religion in the world has said about the pure name of mother as she is a holy woman. It is our duty to take care of her in the best possible way until she leaves this world, just as she gave birth to us in this world with her blood turned into milk.

Me and my sister love my mother very much and I am still studying so economically I am not able to support my mother. But after completing my education in a few days, I hope to go for a job.When I am at home, I use various Ayurvedic creams to lighten my skin.I also apply them on my mother's face on those occasions. Because I want my mother to stay beautiful and young. He also gives a very loving response to them.My mother loves to go on excursions so I hope to take her in my own car in the future and take her wherever she likes. And I hope to give her the food she likes.My main hope is to keep my mother safe and healthy.

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If I had 20k usd I would take my mom on a trip abroad without a second thought and I think she would love it. She is a woman with a kind heart who is very fond of religion. So I hope she will be able to take me on a trip to Buddagaya in India.

In many old age homes in today's society, innocent mothers have been left behind by their children and are living very sadly. I think the children who do this to their mother will never be forgiven by nature. So I am ready to give a small message to the society. That is

Never abandon the mother who nurtured you. Treat your mother like a queen while she is alive.

My mother is always a queen to me. I will love my mother as long as my life lasts.❤


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It's great to know that you love your mom so much, ah... the very mention of the word makes me stunned, her love will never be replaced.

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I am reminded of a saying "1 mother can take care of 7 children, but 7 children are not necessarily able to take care of a mother".

It is indeed a sad portrait to see many elderly mothers being put by their children into nursing homes, even though they used to raise us with all their sacrifices.

Some may feel annoyed by the behavior of elderly people, but it is not humane in my opinion to not care about their old age, where we are the biggest hope for them.

Isn't heaven under mom's feet?

By the way, which country would you like to take your mother on vacation to?

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Kind of sad isn't it if it comes to that saying ☹️ it says enough of the "love" of a child. Busy means mom no longer counts unless she's needed again.

This mom is absent.

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I was unable to continue the discussion anymore, as if I had done the best for my mother, even though I had not, in fact I still disappointed her a lot.

Maybe as I write this, my mother is thinking about me and shedding tears, how much she misses me.

Are you sure you disappoint her or is she disappointed by herself?

Only once a child disappointed me but that was because of what it said not as a person. Perhaps it's easier if there are no expectations and no need to depend on someone?

I believe all I want is that my children and others can be who they are. Why? Because that is what I want and need most of all. It takes courage to be and frequently it's a lonely journey. Still, to me it is better than being someone I am not.

For sure she sheds tears, we all do and you will be missed if you spent longer together.
More important is what you want for you and what you need and miss.

Most of us grow, change and once we found us whatever we face is easier to handle. Makefriends even if they can't be present 24/7 it helps.

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I feel like I haven't been able to make her happy, to fulfill her wishes, I don't know if I'm being too selfish, but the circumstances force me to.

When I visit my parents' house every week, the expression of happiness is clearly visible on their faces, especially when they see their grandchildren.

In such conditions, the hardest thing is the moment when I leave them to return to normal daily activities in the city that is 1 hour away from them.

This is how I see it. We all have a life to live and our own road to take with or without dreams and wishes.

What is the first fish we one as a parent? A healthy child. Healthy as in body and mind.

Next, we want our child to be happy. Both wishes are selfish because an unhealthy unhappy child is a heavy task for a parent it limits us.

Are you selfish if you do what you feel is best for you? We all should be if not there's a heavier load on our shoulders.

A one hour travel is not too far. With children we have different responsibilities and needs. I am afraid it is impossible to please everyone.

As a parent I learned that if I am unhappy it influences my children as well. For sure many called me selfish but as many also say that I invest way more time in my children than the average parent will ever do.

The only thing that counts is how you feel about you. If it comes to it you are your only best friend. The one you are born with and will pass away with so it's wise to accept and be satisfied with the person you are.

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I'm very grateful for your great advice, but it's impossible to please everyone, due to the different inclinations of each of us.

The good news is, tomorrow after my son returns from school, we will be leaving for my parents' house, and staying there for two nights.

However, I hope that there will be no looks of sadness when we temporarily part ways on Monday morning.

Thank you very much for your comment. In fact, there is nothing in this universe that can compare to the character of mother. Because from the time she carries a child in her womb, she makes an immense sacrifice. Labor pain is likened to the pain of 27 human bones breaking at the same time. A mother endures the pain during childbirth because of her love for her child.

Also, according to what you have said, even if a mother can take care of 7 children, it is not necessary to take care of one mother for 7 children. Thank you.🙏

Mothers do not all share the same character! No way they do.

...it is not necessary to take care of one mother for 7 children

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It is not necessary? I wonder if that mother shouldn't have thrown her children away with the tubwater!

It seems to me that you have misunderstood its meaning. Me and my friend this means that a mother who gave birth to 7 children makes an immense commitment to take care of them and nowadays children who leave their mothers in nursing homes think that even if they have 7 children, taking care of one mother is too much trouble for them. This phrase is used to convey that meaning..

I understand what it means but that is not wat is written!

sorry One mother can take care of 7 children but one mother does not need to take care of 7 children. This is what is written there.

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You are absolutely right,

May your days with your beloved mom continue to be blessed.

Thank you and best wishes 💐

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