RE: Student & Steem Comment Contest - Bullies

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Student & Steem Comment Contest - Bullies

in hive-116583 •  2 days ago 

I went to my university after vacation. I was confused about how my classmates would react. I went to the classroom. I saw friends talking with each other in groups. I went there and said, Salam. I saw there was no amusement or excitement on their faces as I saw them. They just smile and that's it. I felt very bad the very first day. I got to the last bench and my friend's seat was empty. As it was the first day so mostly teachers didn't come on the first days. I was alone waiting for the professor looking at the faces of people and thinking about how the students have groups. They were chatting gossiping hugging each other and I was alone sitting at the side. It is very difficult for a person to live alone in a place where they are all in groups.

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This is the picture I took in my class while sitting at the last.

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You said they smiled so smile back and do not go sit in the back! Why are you doing that?
Go sit in the front! They can leave if they like.

Also don't put your feet against the seat. Are painted nails and open shoes allowed?

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Hola amiga, te entiendo perfectamente porque lo viví también, solo deja que pasé el tiempo y encontraras a un grupo con tus mismos afines... Claro está, si es el lugar el que realmente perteneces, porque hay veces que no pertenecemos allí y lo queremos forzar... Gracias por la invitación y buena escritura...

You only find the right people if you change and set boundaries. If not you will be bullied for life unless you grow a thick skin and are deaf, blind and without feelings.

Yes that is first day in school looks like, when you start a school it must take time before some particular type of people move with you and also it for you to monitor their behavior either good or bad, you are the one who can select the kind of people you need and also the kind of group you want.

Not always you can find the righteous after so much try. Some time you struggle yourself to find the people like you but you can't.

Did you read at all? These are classmates she knows for longer!

This has happened several times to me before. But even though it felt very uncomfortable, I understood that I can't control what people think about me. And I just try to be friendly with them. Just be yourself and don't let the experience change you. It could even be that they weren't thinking about you. They could be bothered about something else and not you.