When we make the right decision for the wrong reasons, the decision is no longer right no matter what the decision is, but how can we know that we are making it for the wrong reasons? Or do we act on any external offer that will make us regret taking it later?
All the time we find ourselves surrounded by society, to walk the same way others followed, so as not to experience what might make us outperform others, or make us fall to go back and try again. Consequently, we may find ourselves trying not to disagree too much or take risks so as not to lose what has already been achieved, and to save ourselves from unwanted blame and advice, but with this matter may lead us to implement what makes us succeed and excel, but for our wrong application of the matter ends all Something unexpected ends when we find out why we did what we already did.
For example, we may study in a field that is far from our true passion, or study what we really like, but instead of working on ourselves we work on the competition around us and it turns into a stupid competition that no one asked for. Or we marry a marriage that is doomed to fail before it begins in order to prove to others that we are capable of making what cannot be made successful, or to make someone jealous, and to make ourselves feel that we are still able to get what we want whenever we want without regard for anything, whether it is the other party or the relationship that we want. It might have worked if we had not started it with this distorted image in order to keep pace with the expectations of others around us of what our lives should be.
To be stubborn and work to achieve what we seek to achieve, but to prove to others that we can be as capable as them. Or even prove to ourselves that we can succeed in spite of everything, but because we do all this without working towards the main objective of what we are doing, the consequences and consequences are disastrous.
On the way, we do not work on ourselves, or on the success of our plans, as much as we work to challenge ourselves in vain.
We lose what we've been working on, we lose our jobs and the people we've been trying with, along with the biggest and irreplaceable loss, which is our loss of ourselves.
The reasons that move us are no less important than our dreams and the steps we take. If dreams are possible, the road is easy, and everything is in our hands, but the reasons are wrong or illogical, everything ends forever.