When should you give up?

in hive-120412 •  4 years ago 

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By borrowing Paolo Coelho's writings, Shah Rukh Khan has taught us, "Dil se chah, to puri kayanat use tum se milane ki sajish me lag jati hai".

I mean, if you want someone from the heart, he will be yours one day. Such cosmic rewards are very toxic to us. Why is that toxic?

Needless to say, we have known from a very young age that hard work is the key to success. In other words, if we work hard, then success will come. But is that really the case? There is no guarantee that success will come if you work hard. The number of those who fail in life by working hard is not less. The reason for the failure is that we blame those who did not work hard enough, while the news shows that the work of many bad students was not less than the good students in the class, but they have failed. Because maybe they're better at drawing than sports, sports, social networking, business, or anything else. So it is important to know where to do the work, where to stop. It is true that success does not come without hard work, but it is not true that success comes when you work hard.

This is the thought that 'success will come' has been instilled in us, the result of which is often the cause of frustration or frustration. For this reason, people think that success will come, and they work hard. After a while, having to give up, and save energy for something new, can't accept it. As a result, some people spend their whole lives trying to do something wrong. Life is too short and our time and energy are limited.

As I said at the beginning of the writing, we have learned that you can get someone if you want from the heart. Because of these mindsets, the subconscious mind has become ingrained in our minds, since we want it from the heart, it must be mine. If he wants from the heart, he will be by my side for the rest of his life. So who can not accept the break up of the relationship.

All these ideas are not true. Instead, work hard and if you don't succeed after a while, give up and invest energy in something else. Look with love, if not good, don't invest your whole life. Stop, give up, our energy-like feelings are also limited. So understand, see and spend. If you don't see it happening, move on. Since your feelings are stored up so you can spend them for someone else, this is also true in any relationship.

Try, ask from the heart, then if you do not match, move away from that relationship. Acknowledging the fact that the lotus does not bloom in the desert, but rather find the rocky lake and plant the lotus there. Invest in yourself and your stored feelings there. Believe me, the value of that lotus, the beauty will not be less in any part.

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